Oh, November has been wonderful, so far...
I have truly been making the conscious effort to count my blessings instead of counting my problems and it's amazing what a little effort can do.
Jen and I read a book a few years ago that had a chapter titled...
Attitude and Perspective.
That chapter taught us more than any other book we have ever read. We can't control much in our lives... (thank goodness... I have no problem trusting my every step to God... takes the load off of me and His outcome is much more glorious, perfect, and full of purpose)... but we can control our attitude and perspective. We all are given that split second right before making a choice... what will I choose??
Well... raising four boys... determined to have a growing and thriving marriage... maintaining a peaceful and joyful home... ministering to an amazing group of ladies in my aerobics class weekly... nurturing my family relationships and friendships... serving our sweet church family...
I am constantly faced with those split second choices...
- will I choose to be a respectable mommy or fly off the handle
- will I choose to be my husbands' safe haven or resort to my own selfishness
- will I radiate the message in my home that "home is for free expression NOT first impressions" or shove everyone away so that I can clean, clean, clean
- will I just go and exercise at the Y or consciously be there building relationships with some folks that could sometimes use a little light in their day
- will I make that call and plan that trip or become self absorbed in my own life that I neglect family and friends
- will I go to serve or to be served
May we all wake up everyday asking God for a renewed attitude and perspective into every aspect of our day... may we make the time and effort to choose a joyful attitude and a perspective of blessing in that split second...
START COUNTING!!! Blessings...not Problems....
Here's a sneek peak at our Christmas card... I love that our street is full of boys... Homerun Derby time!!!
I have truly been making the conscious effort to count my blessings instead of counting my problems and it's amazing what a little effort can do.
Jen and I read a book a few years ago that had a chapter titled...
Attitude and Perspective.
That chapter taught us more than any other book we have ever read. We can't control much in our lives... (thank goodness... I have no problem trusting my every step to God... takes the load off of me and His outcome is much more glorious, perfect, and full of purpose)... but we can control our attitude and perspective. We all are given that split second right before making a choice... what will I choose??
Well... raising four boys... determined to have a growing and thriving marriage... maintaining a peaceful and joyful home... ministering to an amazing group of ladies in my aerobics class weekly... nurturing my family relationships and friendships... serving our sweet church family...
I am constantly faced with those split second choices...
- will I choose to be a respectable mommy or fly off the handle
- will I choose to be my husbands' safe haven or resort to my own selfishness
- will I radiate the message in my home that "home is for free expression NOT first impressions" or shove everyone away so that I can clean, clean, clean
- will I just go and exercise at the Y or consciously be there building relationships with some folks that could sometimes use a little light in their day
- will I make that call and plan that trip or become self absorbed in my own life that I neglect family and friends
- will I go to serve or to be served
May we all wake up everyday asking God for a renewed attitude and perspective into every aspect of our day... may we make the time and effort to choose a joyful attitude and a perspective of blessing in that split second...
START COUNTING!!! Blessings...not Problems....
Here's a sneek peak at our Christmas card... I love that our street is full of boys... Homerun Derby time!!!
The leaves have almost completely fallen in our yard... Max enjoyed them before daddy got 'em up... He jumped, frolicked, and ate his pudding in them!!!
The Boys' Fort... oh, this is truly a blessing that I thank God for daily!!! I always yearned for my boys to have a place they could run off to and let their imaginations flow. Well, this fort is that place!! They have decorated it with wood planks and old rusty furniture that they found in an old dump site back in the woods. Complete with a restroom sign pointing to a far off tree!! It rained here alot last week causing the waterfall to be rushing and GORGEOUS in their sweet little boy getaway!!!!
Max needed a bath early one day after playing the mud... I was torn with playing with him and knowing that I needed to get some clothes folded... So, I thought why don't I kill two birds with one stone!!! Makes laundry much more fun with my sweet little companion having some splish splash fun!
Sam and Bo had the chance to get away together for a day to Huck Finn Father and Son Day for all the Preschoolers in the county. Bo was sooo proud to be hopping into daddy's truck... all decked out in their Tom Sawyer attire with fishing poles in hand... just the two of them! Bo won best costume and Sam one Best Daddy in Bo's eyes!!!
Counting my blessings wouldn't be complete without thanking God that noone got hurt... yes, they are on the roof... no purpose, whatsoever, just on the roof... me, oh, my!!!
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