Amazed & Amused

Happy Fall Y'all!!!!

2010-10-02T16:25:00.000-07:00

Fall is here and we LOVE it!!!

The crisp chill in the air, the leaves beginning to change, the windows are open, new fitness program with our church family, school fun has begun, Max's birthday is approaching, fun Halloween plans, pumpkin hunting, and fall sports!! We are crazy busy, but having a crazy fun time!

Get out and LIVE IT UP!!!

Bo started Kindergarten and coach pitch baseball...

Colby started second grade and tackle football which he LOVES... eek!!
Jackson started 5th grade... last year of elementary school... sniff sniff... and he began tackle football and LOVES it... eek... eek!!!! He's on the safety patrol team and just got picked for the statewide chorus group. My All-American boy!!!

Max is home with momma (he's doing the symbol for home, I guess!) He LOVES going to the YMCA in the mornings to see his friends and teachers that he loves. He turns 3 in October and the motorcycle party we are planning for him is gonna rock his world!

As always... we love sharing our life with the Rutland's. We got to see Sam play soccer and soon to see Julia in a pageant... Pam and I had the chance to go to the Women of Faith conference in Atlanta. Still the same as we were 14 years ago when we met. Sam and Jud are planning a camping trip for all the dads and boys... who knows what kind off fun those two will come up with! Love those Rutland's.

Yes... this is my 10 year old... getting ready for a football game!!! Jackson and Colby are rockin' the football field. Tackling away and loving EVERY second of it!! Bo is our slugger on the baseball field... so long as I'm not there!!! For some reason that boy can't get a hit when momma is around... luckily most of his games are on Tuesday night when I'm leading the Biggest Gainer with our church family!! I wish I had pics of the other boys playing, but I've been using my nice camera that a friend gave me to take those which I can't get onto my computer!!!

Bo's buddy, Braylee, from the YMCA!

We're eating outside alot!!! We had 3 deer walk up in our backyard the other day... we just sat and watched... we love our home...

Soooo... the Couch's are alive and well....

Have a GREAT Fall.... get out and enjoy God's beautiful creation along with your family... these are the days that fill my journal and even moreso... fill my heart!!!!

Summer is Here and WE LOVE IT!!!

2010-07-05T16:48:00.000-07:00

We love that Sam is a teacher... he gets to mold little lives, teach his boys, AND HAVE THE SUMMER OFF!!!

We have been able to travel and take trips to the lake and nap together everyday and JUST ALL BE TOGETHER!

So... we are soaking this time up... having loads of fun and lots of rest and laughs... truly gearing up for another school year to come. June was full of fun basketball camps, VBS, and Sam & Jackson going off for a week together to CentriKid. Fun still to come in July... Family trip to South Alabama, Ali's Trip with Orlando buddies, Ali's trip to AtlantaMania... which means boy time at the lake with Daddy and Pop & Lali...

WE LOVE SUMMERTIME!!!!

Looks peaceful and serene ...right??!

There are 4 little boys splashing behind us and jumping off a small cliff into a freezing cold creek...

No better place I'd rather be...

Sam's 30 foot stress reliever...

Sam and his precious momma! She just slid down the slide into the lake!!

Bo learned to kneeboard... woo-hoo!

Max tubed by himself for the first time!

The Thompson's visited the lake for a day and night... If we look like little teenage girls... it's because we were acting like it... tubing... jumping off cliffs... laughing away!!!

All the boys!!!

Yay... the Caffey's visited Rome... I got to take Kelli to Honeymoon Bakery for breakfast... love that Kel!

They could be brothers they love each other soooo much!!!

Father's Day... I love their shirts that they wore to church... Jackson's says "Who's Your Daddy?"(actually referring to God:)). Colby's says "My Dad Rocks." Bo's says "My Dad is the Man." And Max... well, I couldn't find his shirt, so I had to make one with his construction shirt that said "I Dig My Dad!"

Have Fun this Summer Everyone...

Spring Has Sprung and the Fun Has Begun....

2010-04-29T07:40:00.000-07:00

Spring Break came and we hit the road for an adventure... We headed to Orlando to see sooo many people who we adore... We were there 5 days and only did one Disney park... Blizzard Beach... the rest of the time we hung out with our Orlando family and had a blast!!!

Blizzard Beach... all smiles!

Sweet Jaclyn... our Orlando babysitter, "nanny", my favorite 17 year old on the planet!

My buddy Alison... we spent many lonely nights together with our 7 boys while the hubbies were working late... forever friend... we love staying at Casa de Kelly!

My Connie... my "been there, done that" friend... her advice and support is forever cherished!

My Kelli... if we could raise our 7 boys together in a lakehouse... we would!!! Nothin' like that Caffey/ Couch time!!

My Cathy... Seth and Cathy are the Orlando grandparents! I have never seen a lady adore my boys as much as their own grandmothers... I love her love... for them and me and Sam!

Of course... my Jen... we saw each other everyday I was there... soaking up every second we could be together...

Girls' Nite Out... all my Women's Bible Study, and more, buddies all got together for a night FULL of laughs... we never skip a beat!

We love staying at the Kelly's home when we visit... the 7 boys LOVE each other and I got to get a Matthew kiss every morning and night!!

We got to see our beloved Catalina... "Caleena" as all my boys have called her when little.

The playgroup crew at ChicFilA.

Bo and Megan... their first picture taken together was at 6 weeks old... when Megan saw him on Sunday morning, she just ran into his arms... no hesitation...

There's those Albers! Can't imagine not having their love in our life!!!

Sam had one of his greatest fishing days EVER with Ben! He's still giddy from it!!!

Max caught his first fish...

Then... had to let it go... :(

Max's first tube ride at Blizzard Beach...

Cathy-time!!!

Dancin' with the Dukes' kiddos!

Jammin' with the Caffey boys...

Annual Caffey/ Couch pic on the couch...

New haircuts for Spring...

Dancin' with the Johnson Elementary kids...

A day at the Atlanta Zoo with Colby and Max...

SPRING IS BEAUTIFUL... GET OUT AND HAVE AN ADVENTURE TODAY!!!

Happy Easter... Happy Everyday...

2010-04-05T19:07:00.000-07:00

Oh... Spring is here! I just forgot how beautiful this changing season is since this is only our second Spring here in Georgia. It's just breathtaking to see each day a new bud open and to hear the birds again! Max and I go for walks atleast once a day around all of the property. It's one of my favorite times of the day because we have no agenda, no time constraints, no other voices to sway us one direction or another... just me and Max doing whatever his little 2 year old eyes lead us toward... On this day... we were led to a rolling hill of daffodils. He would pick one and want me to smell it... I was sooo smitten with the moment that I tried to capture it with my own arm extended to snap the pic... got it! This picture seems so serene... which THIS moment was serene... but about 32 seconds later Max goes running down this hill, trampling into the mud at the pond edge... then while walking past the cows with a muddy 2 year old in my arms, our dog spooked the cows, causing them to run after the dog who ran to my feet causing 7 cows to charge after the dog, the mom, and the muddy baby... causing the mom to go ankle deep into the muddy pond with baby for an exit plan if the cows continued to charge... luckily not needing to go for a swim since the cows darted the opposite direction. So... momma, standing in the mud with baby, in flip flops, cursing the dogs name wishes she could snap her fingers and be home... doesn't exactly match this moment that was 1 minute and 47 seconds earlier... does it?

Oh, Easter.... have I mentioned how I LOVE being so close to family :) We were blessed to get to be with Sam's parents, his sister's precious family, and Nanny Bea, his grandmother... such a sweet, easy, cozy, and funny time...

Pop & Lali with their 6 grandboys... you'll have to come look in our Family scrapbook of the picture of Lali with the boys and all of them with their fingers in their noses... even Lali!!

Bo and Nanny Bea... she LOVES her great grandchildren... she enjoyed watching them hunt eggs and play ball from the back porch...

Lali's birthday cake with all of her boys...

Checking out the loot...

Could a gal be any more protected?? :) Melt my heart!!!

Daddy... rest... not with this crew around!!!

Kickball time!!! Pop and Aunt Amanda vs. ALL of the boys!!! Pop was not easing up on them!!!

Farmer Jeff came up the road on Murphy for a sweet Easter surprise!!

And finally.... Our littlest man got the biggest boy haircut today! My baby isn't lookin' so much like a baby anymore... eek!!!

Our Weekend at Home

2010-03-21T16:25:00.000-07:00

There is NOTHING better than a vacation at home!!!

No packing, no planes, no possibility for disappointment...

Just relaxing and having fun at my favorite place on the planet with my favorite person on the planet!!

Sam and I spent the weekend at home... just the two of us...

Pop & Lali (Sam's parents) LOVE our boys... they are REALLY FUN grandparents that love to take the boys to the lakehouse for the weekend... a weekend full of trampoline, fishing, golf cart rides, feeding the goats, and so on, and so on...

That makes our weekend that much sweeter.. knowing that our boys are having a blast and wonderfully loved!

So, what was our plan... relax, relax, and get those projects done that we just can't do with our little dudes here!

And we.did.that!!!

We went out Friday night after Sam fished with his dad and I got a massage and pedicure... thanks Tracy!

Sam said, "Anywhere you want to eat honey!" After many ideas... we decided... Ryan's... all you can eat buffet for $8.99! Jealous, aren't ya!! Then we came home, turned on my dancin' music, and began to take our kitchen cabinet doors and handles off.

After Sam learned a few of my dances and the cabinets were dismantled... we hit the hay... getting ready for a BIG project day the next morning!

We slept in til a whopping 6:35am... but we woke up on our own time... enjoyed a cup of coffee and then hit the ground running... me, to the kitchen and Sam, to the yard.

Whatcha think...

We're having sooo much fun making this house our home... one little project at a time...

After a long day of work... we grilled out steaks, baked sweet potatoes, and enjoyed it all on our back patio... talking and eating and being silent on that beautiful evening... soon we went in, got cleaned up from our long day, curled up on the couch with a pint of Ben & Jerry's Coffee Heath Bar Crunch ice cream... the BEST... and watched a movie... shall I say fell- asleep- to- a- movie!

Woke up the next morning, chilled around the house... got our boys new discipline plan in order and allowance and chore plan re-established... now... we are ready for those sweeties to get home!

Sam headed to the lake while I taught a dance lesson and went grocery shopping...

when I got home, I opened the door and heard 5 of the sweetest voices I could ever hear...

one of the my big man who I just spent a glorious and precious weekend with and four little voices that my heart was yearning for once again...

Two in this home is really nice, but Six here is just Heaven on Earth!

Just Random Acts of... FUN!!!

2010-03-17T10:08:00.000-07:00

Well, nothing huge and eventful... "blogworthy"... has been going on around here! Which is a good thing sometimes... leaves more room to just sit around and chat and giggle and just... chill! But a whole lotta little fun has been going on... the boys LOVE for Guitar Hero sparked their interest in learning to play a real guitar! So, last Monday... they started and LOVE IT!!! It feels so good to my heart having them learn an instrument that they can use the rest of their lives... they're so doggone cute too... watch out Jonas Brothers!

Colby dressed like Jon Bon Jovi singing Living On A Prayer

Bo just continuously makes us laugh... his dance moves are rockin'... but what makes us laugh the most... which actually isn't very good... is he's soooo grumpy sometimes! I have never been with someone who gets in such a bad mood... so, he makes us laugh then he begins to smile... maybe that's his schtick!!

Max had a playdate... with two GIRLfriends from the Y. He walked around with his hands in those little pockets KNOWING that he. was. the. stuff!!!

We got a new REFRIGERATOR!!! YAY!! With crushed ice feature... oh my heart!!! Nightly Diet Coke and crushed ice... who needs dessert!!! FYI... not our kitchen pictured... this was the home of the lady we bought it from... pics coming soon after our kitchen is done this weekend!

Yep... that's Sam... "Coach Couch got slimed!!!" Sam told the kids at school that they could slime him if they raised $4000 for the American Heart Assoc. Guess what??? They raised over $7000... they really wanted to see him slimed!

Yep... there's me... this is what I get for Dancin' so hard with my classes at the Y... torn ligament.. eek!! I'm almost heeled though... shew!!!

Oh, Max!!! He's a ball of FUN!!!!

Me, oh, my!!! Do we really have a 10 year old... yep!! And boy is he a precious doll... especially with his steak birthday dinner that he requested... our little man!!!

No crazy schedule + No overload = Random Acts of Fun!!!

Clear your schedule a little, clear your head, and have some FUN!!!!

Let It Snow....

2010-02-13T07:33:00.000-08:00

Why Are We Soooo Happy Today.....

2010-01-21T06:41:00.001-08:00

Because our Family Room is FINISHED!!! We've been in this house for a year now renting it... but since Christmas... we are now staying for good!!! This is the home we will be raising these little men in... growing old together... and making tons of memories...

So, we are ready to make it our own...

We started with the Family/ Play Room... using our Christmas money from family, we painted the walls and bought a couch....

BEFORE....

AFTER...
This is the lamp that I found at Salvation Army for $8.00. I spray painted it black and whammo... just what we needed!
This is our new family snapshot that I thought captured "Chillin.'" Perfect for this room!

This is the little table I found at Habitat for Humanity... perfectly distressed already...

These are my girly, bright touches to the room... I really wanted to go with the colors of Salmon, Coral, Rust, Green, and Cream... TJ Maxx came through with the perfect pillows. The salmon and rust remind me of my moms living room... warm and cozy. The coral reminds me of Jen because she always thinks that I look great in coral!!! How do you like that girly embroidered pillow... I told the boys that is all mine!!!

This pillow is the perfect big and comfy size and it reminds me of Kelli because it matches her bedskirt!!!

I have two new quiet spots in the house now... the chaise section of the couch!!

And now the "yellow chair" in my room...

Max wanted to get in on the photo op!!! He loves the comfy ottoman!

We're also happy that we all got to go to the Tennessee Aquarium for $19.00. Gotta love teacher discount day!!!

Winter Wonderland...

2010-01-08T15:46:00.000-08:00

So, the fun began on Thursday afternoon... Max was napping... i was sitting in the playroom enjoying my "mommy time" and the flakes began to fall. How exciting and peaceful...

Max soon woke up and I enjoyed watching the wonder in his eyes about this mysterious snow...

So... we went out to play in it... hence the previous post...

Soon... the big boys got home from school... the snow had stopped and I was bummed because I didn't get to play with all the boys in the winter wonderland... Sam assured me that it would snow more... I left to go to the Y, alone... all the boys staying home with Sam, to teach my class. An hour and a half later... I was heading home to find that our beautiful new city received a blanket of snow while I was Movin and Groovin in the Y!!! The drive was GORGEOUS heading home. Once I got home... my eyes were in heaven to see our sweet little nest glistening white! When I stepped in the house, the boys informed that they had been playing in the bountiful falling snow... and I held back my little tears because I missed it... who knew what would await us the next morning...

Here is Thursday evening....

The Boys Fort

Then... Friday morning... School is called off...

SNOW DAY!!!

Sunrise...

Morning fire and view of snow...

Sun's Up... LET'S PLAY... come on down buddies...

This was the last picture of our outdoor playtime... poor old Bo was sooo cold... he would NOT even fake a smile... I commend his honesty...

This is while he was still warm...

My precious and delicate Bo just hung back and watched it all unfold with a smile and giggles...

My sweet, angelic, daring Colby... appropriately making a snow angel...

My strong and focused, Jackson... had to make a bigger and better one...

Oh... Baby Max... always wanting to be with his brothers... "just bundle me up and let me go!"

Happy Winter Y'all... may it be warm, adventurous, and full of giggles!!!!

Let It Snow....

2010-01-07T10:39:00.001-08:00

WOW! What a surprise to wake up to after nap!!!

Now, we just have to get all the dudes home from school, so we can all enjoy it!I think Max was in shock to be in the snow... speechless!!!

O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree...

2009-11-28T17:42:00.000-08:00

Oh, yes... the time is here. Time to embark on a family tradition that has held true since I was a little girl... The Great Christmas Tree Hunt and Cut!! This is our first year celebrating Christmas in Georgia, so we really didn't know where we would find a tree farm to fulfil our Christmas tradition. Our buddy, Jud, sells beautiful trees out at a tree lot, but the boys love getting under the tree with Sam to cut it down. Jud said he would set the tree on the ground and let them pretend to cut it with a saw... thanks for the thought sweet friend!!! Well, we found a place about 30 minutes away that sounded great, but was a little pricey. Then, I found a place... a mile from our house. They had trees to cut down, hayride for the family, animals to look at, FREE popcorn, cider, and boiled peanuts... all for the low price of the tree!!!! PERFECT!!! Once we loaded the tree and the family back into the truck, we headed over to the Dollar Tree for the boys to pick and buy gifts for the family. They were sooo cute walking around the store with their little baskets in hand choosing something for each member of the family. Once they were paid for... they each had their own bag full of gifts to wrap themselves and put under the tree. Too fun! Two, five dollar Papa John's pizzas later... we were heading home to unload the fun... The holiday season has kicked off and I can't wait for the rest of this sweet season to enjoy celebrating with my family and friends the precious and amazing birth of Jesus. We heard "O, Holy Night" in the truck driving home tonight and I just teared up thinking of the magnatude of sweetness this time of year celebrates. If you haven't read it yet.. Beth Moore wrote a beautiful view of the night Jesus was born through the eyes of Mary. Look it up...

Enjoy this time of year... enjoy your family... enjoy the food... enjoy the calories... enjoy the parties with friends... enjoy and rejoice with eyes shut and arms raised high the birthday of our sweet Savior!!!

Can you believe we go this shot holding the camera out in front of us??!!??

Jackson snapped this one!

Sam is so good about getting me in some pics!
The clippings in my hand are for Colby to make a tree for White Bear... oh, beloved White Bear!

Ummm... popcorn and boiled peanuts! Did you notice all the Alabama attire? The boys are proud of The Tide pulling out a win against Auburn... sorry Grammoo!!!

Donkey and Miniature Horse... Max called them all cows!!!

Hayride with our tree on back!
Cutting it down...
Timber!!!!
Nice choice boys!
Roam free sweet ones!!!

Thankful for Everyday in November...

2009-11-15T16:29:00.000-08:00

Oh, November has been wonderful, so far...
I have truly been making the conscious effort to count my blessings instead of counting my problems and it's amazing what a little effort can do.
Jen and I read a book a few years ago that had a chapter titled...
Attitude and Perspective.
That chapter taught us more than any other book we have ever read. We can't control much in our lives... (thank goodness... I have no problem trusting my every step to God... takes the load off of me and His outcome is much more glorious, perfect, and full of purpose)... but we can control our attitude and perspective. We all are given that split second right before making a choice... what will I choose??
Well... raising four boys... determined to have a growing and thriving marriage... maintaining a peaceful and joyful home... ministering to an amazing group of ladies in my aerobics class weekly... nurturing my family relationships and friendships... serving our sweet church family...
I am constantly faced with those split second choices...
- will I choose to be a respectable mommy or fly off the handle
- will I choose to be my husbands' safe haven or resort to my own selfishness
- will I radiate the message in my home that "home is for free expression NOT first impressions" or shove everyone away so that I can clean, clean, clean
- will I just go and exercise at the Y or consciously be there building relationships with some folks that could sometimes use a little light in their day
- will I make that call and plan that trip or become self absorbed in my own life that I neglect family and friends
- will I go to serve or to be served

May we all wake up everyday asking God for a renewed attitude and perspective into every aspect of our day... may we make the time and effort to choose a joyful attitude and a perspective of blessing in that split second...

START COUNTING!!! Blessings...not Problems....

Here's a sneek peak at our Christmas card... I love that our street is full of boys... Homerun Derby time!!!

I finally bought a wire cooling rack... simple blessings!!!

The leaves have almost completely fallen in our yard... Max enjoyed them before daddy got 'em up... He jumped, frolicked, and ate his pudding in them!!!

Ohhh... little boys in blue jeans... melt my heart!!!

The Boys' Fort... oh, this is truly a blessing that I thank God for daily!!! I always yearned for my boys to have a place they could run off to and let their imaginations flow. Well, this fort is that place!! They have decorated it with wood planks and old rusty furniture that they found in an old dump site back in the woods. Complete with a restroom sign pointing to a far off tree!! It rained here alot last week causing the waterfall to be rushing and GORGEOUS in their sweet little boy getaway!!!!

Max needed a bath early one day after playing the mud... I was torn with playing with him and knowing that I needed to get some clothes folded... So, I thought why don't I kill two birds with one stone!!! Makes laundry much more fun with my sweet little companion having some splish splash fun!

Sam and Bo had the chance to get away together for a day to Huck Finn Father and Son Day for all the Preschoolers in the county. Bo was sooo proud to be hopping into daddy's truck... all decked out in their Tom Sawyer attire with fishing poles in hand... just the two of them! Bo won best costume and Sam one Best Daddy in Bo's eyes!!!

Counting my blessings wouldn't be complete without thanking God that noone got hurt... yes, they are on the roof... no purpose, whatsoever, just on the roof... me, oh, my!!!

Falling In Love with the Fall in Georgia!!

2009-10-30T18:38:00.000-07:00

Just when I thought that our new hometown couldn't get any sweeter... Max and I went on a field trip with Bo to the Pumpkin Patch... this place was unlike anywhere I've ever been... deep in the beautiful Georgia mountains lay a sweet little farm ready for kiddos to enjoy... sheer beauty!

Oh my... it is GORGEOUS here in the Fall. I gasp everytime I drive over the brow of the mountain heading into the city... seeing the acres and acres of trees that are turning every shade of an autumn palate. I am smitten driving down our sweet little road that leads to our house because everyday a tree has turned a new shade of beauty.

October Happenings!!!

2009-10-25T10:03:00.001-07:00

START AT THE BOTTOM of THIS POST AND READ UP!!!
OOPS!!!

Pop & Lali LOVE their last GrandBoy!!!

and Pop!!!

Max loves Aunt Pam!!!

Failed attempt for a sweet family picture!! I always like these better anyway!!!

Pinata time!!!

The Party Crew!!! Julia, Sam, Ben, Isaac, Cade, Cason, and the bros!!!

Present time!!!

Hayride into the pasture to see the cows in Daddy's truck!!

Ummm.... chocolate fountain!!!

Gotta have a cow cake!!!

next day.... PARTY TIME!!

Little family birthday cupcake!!!

Kick your feet up, Max... it's your birthday pizza dinner!!!

What do u want for your birthday, Max.... Play In The Mud!!!!

I can't believe that our last little baby boy is 2!!! The stomping of his feet running through the house, his sweet kisses and hugs that he loves to give away, his love for cows, and so much more.. just melts us to the core!!!

Oh.. there is a very special day in October... Max's birthday!!!

and coats!!

Time to pull out all the cold weather clothes...

Country dinner... pintos, collards, ham, and skillet cornbread... woo-hoo!!!

I woke up from Sunday nap and found this note on the table!!! My big country boy!

Fall is here... and it is wonderful!!!

COUNTRY LIVING!!! Our neighbors love to grow food in their garden and give it away to us... so we accept!!!

We got to have a fun day celebrating and raising money for sweet Mallory Mc. It was cold and rainy, but nobody's sweet hearts seemed to be dampened!!!

4 precious brothers curled up watching a movie!

Thumbs up from the men!!!

So, being the only gal in the house... I don't cook many pretty, girly meals... but this night was different. I wanted a yummy SALAD with grilled chicken, strawberries, blueberries, almond slivers, and girly dressing... HOW'D THEY LIKE IT!!!???

Max has lost it with this crew!!!

Time to get clean!!!

Yes... that's their faces in the water!!!

When it rains... these boys don't want to curl up with hot chocolate... they want to get in it!!! No lightning... GO FOR IT!!!

Happy Baptism Cake!!

Colby was baptised!!!! Grammoo and Grouch & Pop and Lali all came over to celebrate the day with us! Colby let us know that..."I've known Jesus my whole life and I've known that I don't want to die without Him cuz I don't want to go to hell... now I know that I can't LIVE without Him." That's right buddy...

The Dukes' (minus Jason... he was at a conference in Atlanta) came to stay a week with us. Jen and the 4 kiddos piled into our home... and we had a blast!!! We took most of our pics on Jen's camera, but I had these two! I got to show Jen our new life here in Rome! She took my aerobics class (and did GREAT!), we went to all the parks, saw camels at the fair, went out for an Ali and Jen nite, and so much more... We jokingly called ourselves... "Sam, Ali, & Jen Plus Eight!"

He was catcher the entire season... we bought our first CUP. Now that's little boy world. You should've seen me after the first game washing his uniform... I didn't know how to clean it... washing machine in the undies?? Take it out and put it in the dishwasher?? Hand wash???

Jackson played Fall Baseball with his best friend Cade!

OHHH October is FULL of fun...

September Fun!!!

2009-09-15T16:03:00.000-07:00

September has been a blast... and we are only half way through it!!
We finally completed Sam's wreck settlement and were truly blessed by someone in our church family to sell us a wonderful truck! Makes a wifey feel good to know her husband is driving a big truck after he was smashed by a big rig in his little car!

The boys have started doing flips, cart wheels, and hand stands all over the house!

I have a picture of Max doing a handstand, but he just got out of the tub... naked noony handstand... for our eyes only!!!

Rolo found a new bed... our blanket box!

We got to go to the beach for a weekend!!!
Pop and Lali kept the boys for us... they are sooo wonderful everyway imaginable!!!
Me, Sam, Pam , and Jud took off Friday evening for Panama City and came back Monday...
It rained all day Saturday... but we didn't care... we napped, watched movies, played cards, and got to go see the Dukes' in Destin and go to dinner! Thanks, Pop Dukes!!! Sunday was BEAUTIFUL outside.... we played in the ocean like a bunch of 12 year olds, played cards on the beach, & swam in the pool. That afternoon, we cooked at the condo and had a GREAT chill nite in with more cards and a movie!!! Much needed chill time and much enjoyed friend time!!!

I love my Pam!

My favorite person on the planet!!!

Pam & Jud... responsible for my sore stomach muscles and loss of voice after making me laugh ALL weekend!

Sam and Jason... even though we've moved... never skip a beat!

My Jen... my heart..

What a glorious September... more to come...

God Soooo Knew What He Was Doing...

2009-08-27T20:03:00.001-07:00

I think money is soooooo OVERRATED!!!

Maybe I'm only saying that because we don't have any... every bit extra we get goes into our pantry and then inevitably into the tummy's of our 4 boys within 27 minutes of purchasing!!

ANYWAY... God soooo knew what He was doing when He created this amazing Earth... Just in the past 3 days I've experienced more beauty and joy in my own backyard and home than I could ever experience purchasing...

HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING WHEN HE GAVE US...

*Sweet Neighbors with a Really Sweet Pear Tree*

Not only will we love fresh pears and a pear tart, but also a sweet little centerpiece on the dining room table... until the hungry lil' mongers eat 'em all!
* Gardenia Bushes Lining Our Garage*
... made for some sweet momma time with her baby boy...

... and a quirky little smell good in the kitchen... recycle everything... count it all JOY!

* Grammoo*

Oh, my momma... just precious.

* Teeth Pulling*

who needs Saturday morning cartoons when you can set-up a wrestling match with your favorite wrestler attached to your loose tooth with dental floss... then, your wrestler does his signature move and... whammo... tooth pulled and a morning of laughter!

* Chocolate Chip, Chocolate Swirl Bundt Cake*

* Brothers*

... sometimes mom and dad just don't cut it... let me go to my bro!

I hope you are able to find much JOY, LAUGHTER, and CONTENTMENT in the things that are right in front of you... count it all joy!

We're Ba-ack!!!

2009-08-14T17:59:00.000-07:00

but on another site.... silly me!!! I posted it on Colby's blog... check it out
www.colbyandwhitebear.blogspot.com

So Long....

2009-04-03T06:48:00.000-07:00

Wow! Are we loving our new and simple life! Sam is in a job that he is thriving in and I get to be home with our little boys while focusing on our home and family! This decision has caused us to make some very important, yet valued sacrifices. We're making alot of changes to nurture our new life and renewed focus! Be it a pay cut, no internet, no big cable package... IT'S ALL WORTH IT! More time for the things that we love and value the most! So, although I will miss facebooking with my friends... I will enjoy phone calls that much more! Even though we won't have some of these fun luxuries... the peace of knowing that we will be putting money in savings is exciting! Although we won't have entertainment at our fingertips with the TV... we will enjoy more game times and quiet times! Although I won't be blogging our family stories for our loved ones to enjoy... that just means you have to come visit to see our life story told in scrapbooks!

So long internet buddies... call or visit ANYTIME!!!

The Couch Clan

Simple Joys...

2009-03-07T16:39:00.000-08:00

I am loving where my heart is right now. When we felt God was leading us into a new direction, I had no idea that it was going to do SO much for MY heart and mind. I knew the boys would love and benefit from having their mommy 100%. I knew Sam would thrive and beam in his workplace ministering to and playing with kids all day long. I knew our home would have a new sense of peace, calm, and orderliness. But I had no idea that I would wake everyday yearning to soak up every little simple joy that God so beautifully places in all of our lives that we seem to mow over and miss being swept away by busy-ness and overloaded lives.

I've always heard that God doesn't have to change our circumstances, we just need to let Him change us. It's so true! In summer's past, when we would travel to our family's homes; the lake, the mountain, the creek... I would say to Sam, "Oh, I need this... the peace I feel inside here is what I need." So, I always attributed "needing" to live on a lake or in the mountains or in a treehouse on a creek to feel that peace. Needless to say... I got a big wake up call when we first moved from Orlando and stayed at Sam's parents lakehouse for 4 weeks while looking for a home in Georgia. When it was approaching time to leave the lakehouse and move to our home... I looked across the lake and said to myself, "I don't need this place, I needed to absorb the peace of following God's voice and living in the center of His will for this time in our life."

So, I am just excited to be anywhere... so, long as I am following God's lead... no matter how radical it seems sometimes! In doing so, I've found that God speaks to my heart the loudest and clearest when life is simple... shall I say when I am simple... Here's a few simple joys from the past week...

Today... Pop and Lali came for a day visit!! We played and grilled out. That's it.. plain and simple. But when you have been atleast 6 hours away from each other for the past 9 years... you soak up the beauty of living close to family.

Simplicity of Toys... when we were packing up our Orlando house we decided really scale down the toys. So, when we found this house, Sam and I were determined to have ALL of the boys toys in this one closet. WE DID IT! What a pure joy to have so little to keep clean and organized. And if we can't get to clean up... close the door and don't worry about it!!

Our Valentine's Day this year... simple joy of a date"in". We got the boys to bed, I hopped in the shower while Sam started to grill the steaks and bake the potatoes, I put my pajamas on, and we relaxed in our home eating our yummy meal! No babysitter to pay, no traffic to dodge, no voices to speak over... just us!

Free haircuts from dad... Ooh, I just beamed inside as Sam gave all the boys GREAT haircuts... that saved us forty bucks..

My Jen... just a simple phone call away to say "Hey." Never a need for a long conversation (well, atleast 2 times a week), just a quick simple hello can bring each of us so much joy! This is one of my favorite pictures of us. Snapped at a wedding by the photographer while we were talking to others. Simple moment, simple joy to me every time I walk by it

My gift to the boys... we have so much room in our new house due to us simplifying our "stuff" when we moved that we have closets with no purpose. So, the boys have two closets in their room... this one with an empty bottom. Well, the boys LOVE reading lately, so I decided to surprise them with a reading nook. A place where they can go and close the doors and have a quiet adventure with their books. Before bedtime last night, I told them that I had a gift for them in their room. They all lit up saying, "Ooh, a present!" To which I said, "Well, it's nothing I bought, just something that I did for you." They got even more excited... which that is a simple joy in itself. :) So, we scurried off to their room for bedtime and THEY LOVE IT!!! We piled in and read their bedtime story... then all throughout the day today, I kept finding someone tucked away in their reading nook... who knew a quilt, a body pillow, and a lamp would be so adored... simple joy

I hope you're able to find the Simple Joys in your day today... and everyday!!!

Thanks Austen, Hayden, & Jack!!!

2009-03-02T12:36:00.001-08:00

To our sweet Orlando friends...

Thank you so much for sending us our t-shirts! We got home from school and put them right on!! Then, took them off so we can wear them to school tomorrow!

Can't wait to play the Wii with you in 40 days when we come to Orlando!!!love you sooooo much...

Jackson, Colby, and Bo!!

February at our Crazy, Fun Home!

2009-03-01T17:20:00.000-08:00

February has been a GREAT month... we've settled into our home, found a great church family, and are loving our extra time together as a family!! We love having family close by, meeting new friends, and REALLY enjoying doing life with our great friends Pam, Jud, and the kiddos! Have a peek into our little, happy life...

Bo loves his Rolo-time! Oh, a boy and his dog... so sweet!

Our sweet friend, Julia! Sporting her crown she won at a pageant! We're so proud... we thought we'd have a little fun...

Max, the walking Princess...

Jackson, the unwilling Princess...

Colby, the swollen lip Princess...

Bo, the very eager Princess...

Me and Pam... friends for the past 12 years... so excited to be living close to each other so we can share these fun times together!

Tommy got in on the fun, too!!!

Lots of brother cuddle time!

Yeah, these are the pics I have to treasure when the boys are at each others throats... threatening each other that they don't want to be brothers anymore...

White Bear learned to skateboard... Colby's insert!

Make your own Pizza night!!

Big man turned 9!!! Sam managed to make a pancake in the shape of a 9!! Bo turned 4, but I can't find the pic of his breakfast!!

Max loves when Sam gets home from work... here they are resting on the back porch in the sun!

Our house has been sick this whole month... stomach flus, flus, ear infections, coughs, colds... you name it... we had it! March is looking good so far... shew... go away winter!!

Max learned how to throw things in Tommy's tank... Tommy is a Monster Truck fan, as well!

Max learned how to walk, feed himself with a fork and spoon, and continuously melt our heart!

My mom and I drove to see my sister at her Teacher of the Year Banquet. We LOVE weekends together... Momma Mia, Steel Magnolias, and LOTS of laughs!!!

Another wonderful month behind us... I wonder what's in store for us this month!

LOOK WHO'S WALKING!!!!

2009-02-16T07:57:00.000-08:00

Yep... Max is walking!!! He beat Bo's age of walking by a month. Bo had us a little nervous not walking until 17 months... but Max has done it just shy of 16 months... Way to go BIG BOY!!!

Simplified and LOVING IT!!!!

2009-01-29T18:18:00.000-08:00

Well... we are settled in Georgia! It has been an amazing past month... full of blessings and joy and little heartache. Ever since December 13th... life has been full of blessings... May the pictures tell the story... Chronological order... BACKWARDS... I've simplified my life, so I'm not gonna spend the time rearranging all these photos! :)

Our new home... We love it! We are about 5 miles out of Rome. Far enough to feel like we are in the country, but close enough to pop into town!We live with about 6 other house on this quiet road.We have a great shed... I call it my workshop! Colby calls it White Bears house!

I love the front porch swing... Me, Bo , and Max watch for Sam, Jack, & Colby to come home each day!

There is a pature next to our house... great little wind-y road that we walk to see the cows.

We've had a great time being close to Pop & Lali. Sooo great being close to family!

We're also close to Sam's sister and her family. We love Ben & Isaac! 6 boys... whoo!!

Max has loved his momma time!

Rolo has been getting extra love, too!

Max LOVES the ducks at the Lake. "Guck, whoa!!"

Bo and Max are lovin' each other during the day. Max has to get his "Bo-kiss" in the morning and after nap!

Max discovered the bathroom cabinet! Simple pleasures!

We celebrated Colby's 6th birthday!

Sunsets are amazing!! Jen... doesn't it look like the opening of The Notebook?

Max is ALMOST walking!!

We enjoyed a little snow!

I think we FINALLY got used to the cold weather... took us a good month!

Max has packed on some pounds... thank God! He was sooo sick causing him to lose about 5 pounds! OOOh, he is soooo scrumptious!!!

We are loving the wii from Pop & Lali!

Even White Bear gets to play!

Sam took the boys to the Monster Truck show in Atlanta! Toooo fun!

We live so much closer to my Mom & Dan... just a hop, skip, and a jump away!! YAY!!!

We had a sweet goodbye breakfast at Cracker Barrel before leaving Orlando... :(

I love my Jen! Oh, if we could only teleport!!!

We miss those sweet friends!

We loved staying with the Kelly's before we moved and enjoyed playing on our playset before leaving it for Jacob, Ethan, and Matthew!

Loadin' up the PODS!

Last dinner with the Albers!!!

Chritmas with the Caffey's!

Christmas Morning!!

The number 6 best moment of my life... #1 > My wedding day... #2> Birth of Jackson...

#3> Birth of Colby... #4> Birth of Bo... #5> Birth of Max.......

#6... Birth of Ella Faith Dukes. It was a true, pure joy to be in the room when she was born. It is a true honor for that little angel to have my middle name. By the way... Jen is the strongest chick on the planet... all I've ever known are c-sections... whoo!! She made me sooo proud!

God is so good... take a little time to hear His voice today... He could be nudging you toward a blessing that only He can make happen!!!

Pictures coming soon...

2009-01-29T08:43:00.001-08:00

As soon as I unpack my camera cord!!!

We are in our sweet home in Georgia..... LOVING IT!!!!

Big update soon...

We're doing GREAT in Alabama & Georgia Y'all!!!!

2009-01-15T11:26:00.000-08:00

WOW!!! We did it... we really did it!! We have been at the lakehouse for two weeks now and we are loving EVERY second of it!!!

UPDATE ON EVERYONE... sorry no pics... I'm at Sam's parents house doing this update since we don't have internet at the lake and my camera doesn't plug in here!!!

SAM... LOVES his new job. He gets to take the boys into work with him for the school day. They do their car devotion and scripture memory in the morning and then he has some quiet time in the afternoon because Jackson and Colby fall asleep for the 40 minute drive back to the lakehouse. He is working hard to find us a home in Rome... lotta great prospects. He's loving quiet nights with Ali. My country boy is eating up this part of the country... lakes, mountains... heaven!

ALI... LOVES her simplicity!!! I am really enjoying moving slower! I'm holding Max longer in the morning when he wakes, I'm bowling with Bo on the Wii, I'm reading book after book with Colby at night, and I'm having a lot of talk time with my Jackson who is so curious about the world right now. I have healthily let go of my amazing job that I adored for the past five years and have embraced the beauty of my family being my only responsibility. I'm having my sweet quiet time every day and love reading the Love Dare with Sam. My three favorite times of the day are: watching the sunrise over the lake while eating breakfast with Bo and Max... Sitting on the dock, watching the ducks swim in while hearing Max say in pure amazement, "Guck.. ooohhh!!!"... Sitting on the rocking chairs on the prch anticipating Sam, Jackson, and Colby's arrival.

JACKSON... He's my cool dude!! He just blended right into the kids at school. Sam said he has a different friend sitting by him at lunch each day. He loves Homerun Derby on Wii and can't stand the cold weather. Gotta get his Florida blood used to it!!

COLBY... Sweet Colby!! His teacher adores him at school! As do all the girls... that's Colby!! He's excelling in reading and always ready to see Bo & Max in the afternoon. He loves when I read with him at night... so precious!

BO... He's loving having his momma with him all day. All throughout the day, he hugs me and says "I love you!" We go on a lot of great adventures that make his big brothers jealous! Library, walks to the goats, trip to pop and lali's for the day, etc... It's great to be three!!!

MAX... Oh Max!! He is smiling and eating so much. He got through his 2 months of diarhea and lack of appetite... now he's making up for lost time. He's chubby and happy. He loves kissing on Bo all day and I love kissing on him!!

God is sooooooooo good.... we never fully understand why He leads us certain directions at really odd times, but it's beautiful to see His plan unfold... We're loving every minute of it!!!

So Long, Farewell from the Couch Clan... for now!!!

2008-11-17T05:27:00.000-08:00

The Couch Clan is signing off for now...

Well, it's November 17th and the next 6 weeks are going to be very full for our family.

Sam and I are going on vacation in Cancun, Pop & Lali are coming to take care of the boys, we are doing all of the wonderful festivities of the Holiday Season with our church family, we are wrapping our jobs at Westpoint, we will be busy bees working on Creative Christmas presents for family and friends, we will be packing up our home, and Sam will be traveling to nail down his new job and our new home... all before December 31st.

So, needless to say any extra time that I have after a long, task-full day... I need to be nurturing my marriage, cradling my children, hangin' with my pals that I adore here in Orlando, and resting! The scrapbooks are tucked away and pictures are printed and ready for me to do my pages once I'm settled again. The computer will soon be packed up... Therefore... have a wonderful Thanksgiving and Christmas... you'll be hearing from us soon...

from Alabama!!!

Happy Election Day!!!

2008-11-04T16:25:00.001-08:00

What an exciting day... you can just feel the excitement all around for our new President and Vice President about to be revealed. Whoever it may be... may we all rally around them and give them our support! What an exciting time... let's make a cake!!!

A Few Things that I Love About My Boys...

2008-10-28T16:15:00.000-07:00

Their dirty little feet...

They love to run up the slide moreso than sliding down...

They love to swing higher and higher and higher...

They truly believe they can tackle their daddy...

They love romping around in the grass...

over and over and over... no problem...

They are absolutely adorable in jeans...

They seem to claim anything pretty that I have in our home into little boy storage...

They find the joy in anything... even turning a carseat around...

They adore each other...

Although they have distinct differences... you can tell they are brothers...

One look from each one of them... and their charm makes my heart flutter...

They are all gonna be men one day wearing a tux on their special day... and I'm gonna remember these little days when they were just mine and Sam's. I can't wait to share their charm and joy and little boy hearts with four beautiful ladies one day.

Happy, Special Day for Our Little Guy!!

2008-10-18T11:00:00.001-07:00

Well, well, well... Our precious Max has turned one. I can't believe it's been a year since we heard my doctor say, "He's not that big, Ali!" When we just knew he was gonna be a 9 pound baby.

Well, he's big now!!!

Today was a WONDERFUL celebration of how big he's growing and how unbelievably special he is to me, Sam, Jackson, Colby, Bo, and all of our Family and Friends!!!

"Everyone is here for me!?!"

Special Train Cake for our little caboose... the last of the Couch Clan Train.
Let the Train ride to the park begin! Nice wheels...
All the train passengers embarked on the excursion!
A bite to eat at the Dining Car!!

Choo-Choo Chex Mix
Smokestack Pop CornWheels and Tracks
Chugga-Chugga Juice-Juice
Produce Cart
Jackson caught Austin while fishing... He's a keeper!!
So much love for one little guy!!!And away he goes...

Present Time!
"Okay, Guys... Let's Go... It's hard turning ONE!!!"

Look Who's Turning One!!!

2008-10-13T06:24:00.000-07:00

We can't believe it's been a year!!!

Our Joy... Our Pain...

2008-10-03T09:54:00.000-07:00

The Couch Clan is full of JOY all of the time... We aren't particularly "happy" all of the time, but JOY is everpresent. Moments happen between Sam and I or with the boys that don't fade away, they seem to linger. When I see something or hear something from one of the boys... my "happy tank" fills up. When Sam loves me the way that only he can do... my heart just swells.

After a date one night... we walked into our room to find the three big boys in our bed... Colby in his full baseball uniform. Gotta love the day you get your uniform!!!

I think I've been caught!!! I was watching Max play around in his bed before falling asleep one nap time. All of a sudden, I felt like he discovered that I was on the other side of that camera. FREAKY!!
Colby had made some "unwise decisions" in the bath one night to which Sam let him know that he would get a spanking once everyone was all clean. Colby asked to be cleaned first and then he bolted out of the bathroom. To our amusement he runs out of his room with 4 pairs of Jackson's pants on and said.."I'm ready for my whoopin'!"
Max is turning 1 in 23 days. Well, since he's our last baby... Grammoo sweetly calls him our "caboose." The end of the Couch train! Properly enough, Jackson thought we should have a train party for his first birthday! We went to an old Caboose downtown and had a little photo shoot with him!!! Happy early birthday... Maxi-moose the Caboose!!
As we all know... happiness isn't forever. There are times of great pain intertwined within our good days. I am so thankful for the JOY that is forever in my heart... even though I may not be feeling particularly happy during a tough time. The hope that my God promises me will forever be the basis for my constant JOY... even when I hurt...

ALL THAT TO SAY....

When a friend comes over to help you clean out your flower beds and lay fresh mulch...

When a mysterious, sweet man appears to dig a hole in your yard and plant a post...
You can probably bet... WE'RE SELLING OUR HOUSE AND MOVING!!!Yep... that's right... we're moving... here is the letter we read this past Sunday morning to our amazing church family that we have had the honor of serving the past 4 1/2 years ... Sam read the beginning and I read the end...

"One of my favorite country songs states that: “Love, you’re the simple truth, and you’re the biggest mystery.” Well, our God is love, and His purpose and ways are, for the most part, simple, yet often mysterious. So, as we come to you this morning, we have tears in our eyes, but smiles on our faces. Our God of love has mysteriously placed a simple truth on our heart. Mysterious in the fact that He, yet again, is providing something beautiful through a challenging situation.
For the past 4 ½ years, we have seen God shine bright and glorious through three specific situations that could not have ever happened without an Awesome God and the loving support of this church family which He blessed us to be a part of.
First of all, Ali has been working the Children’s Ministry with 2 children, then three children, then four children. God has been so amazing to protect her from feelings of overload, guilt, or frustration juggling the job and family requirements. Even on difficult days, God affirmed her through voices of encouragement and truth from our wonderful Westpoint family.
Second, God has taught me so much while working in many different arenas while living here in Florida. From Athletic Director and Coach, to Youth and Children’s Pastor, to Warehouse Employee, to Coffee Maker, to Family Pastor. I have attempted to be a vessel at his disposal to do whatever work He has called me to do at any given time. Although I have not been specifically working jobs that perfectly match what I am wired by Him to do, He has taught me so much and grown my spirit in ways that I would have never experienced had I not answered his mysterious call to follow Him to Orlando. He has surrounded me with people that assist me where I am weak, and has taught me life lessons that I will always carry on. He has used me to impact lives for Him in many unexpected ways and I will remember these relationships forever.
Finally, we have not had family any closer than 7 hours from here, yet our hearts have been so full and our life so supported. When asked about family, we always respond, “Yes, we have family here. They are friends, but they are family.”
So, as we stand here with you this morning, we are letting you know that God is using another challenging situation to provide something beautiful and glorious. I hurt my back about eight weeks ago and did nothing for two days, causing Ali to solely focus on caring for me, the boys, and our home. In this two days in which nothing else in the world mattered other than ministering to our home, Ali felt God prick her heart. She felt Him leading her to give all of her focus to our family and home. As she shared this with me, the feelings that I had been having privately for months of God leading me back to teaching and coaching were all beginning to make sense. For my girl to get home to minister to our family with all she has, I would need to be teaching and coaching to provide for the family. What a beautiful moment it was to see God bring two hearts together for His purpose. During this decision process, we both had an overwhelming peace about doing whatever necessary to get Ali back in the home and me ministering and leading in the school arena again. Even if it meant that we would need to move. In the decision of moving, we see God in all his simple truth and mystery. Using the extremely difficult situation of leaving you, our Florida Family, for something beautiful and glorious for this new season of life God is calling us into.

Although our eyes are filled with tears because we are leaving you, we have smiles on our faces because the joy that is leaping in our hearts of following God’s lead excites us tremendously.
So, we thank you for being the church to us and we will always cherish our moments of doing life together. Births of children or loss of family members. The joys of a day or the pain of a moment. Watching your child come to know Jesus or watching your teen seek to know Him in their own unique way. Playing softball and scrapbooking. Digging deeper in God’s Word together or simply just having silly moments living in the freedom of Christ.
To all of you from myself, Sam, Jackson, Colby, Bo, and Max… we must echo the beautiful words of Paul the Apostle… “We give thanks to God always for all of you, making mention of you in our prayers.”

So... although we are full of JOY on a constant basis... our heart bleeds to leave our amazing "family" here in Florida. We are sad to leave, but ecstatic to go and pursue the amazing dreams and passions that God has put on our hearts.

Can we take our neighbor, Laura, with us???!!!

Getting To Know Me!!!

2008-09-26T11:41:00.000-07:00

ok..here is something fun. I saw this on a friends blog and it looked fun. SO, for all of you who have your own blog, I tag you with this. It is so fun to read other's answers....I can't wait to read yours!!!

35 ODD THINGS ABOUT ME

1. Do you like blue cheese salad dressing? nope
2. Do you own a gun? no
3. What's a favorite drink at Starbucks or other specialty coffee house? House Blend Cafe's Peanut Butter Chocolate Shake
4. What do you prefer to drink in the morning ? Water... BORING!
5. Do you do push-ups? Yes, but the girl-y ones... boy ones hurt my wrists
6. What's your favorite piece of jewelry? engagement ring
7. Favorite hobby? photography
8. Do you have A.D.D? not at all
9. What's one trait that you hate about yourself? I bite my fingernails
10. Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment: When do we need to leave for tball, I should be working, is there a healthy snack in the kitchen
11. Name 4 drinks you regularly drink. Water, Milk, Caffeine Free Diet Coke, Sweet Tea
12. Current worry right now? All my friends' hurts.
13. Current hate right now? Presidential Campaign "trash ads"
14. Favorite place to be? the beach or the lake or anywhere outside with my family
15. Do you like to travel? Dying to go to Cancun this Fall and Tuscany in my lifetime!
16. What color shirt are you wearing? grey tank top
17. Do you like sleeping on satin sheets? nope... tshirt sheets
18. Can you whistle? sort of
19. Favorite color? navy blue or coral
20. If you could would you be a pirate? not crazy about being a criminal
21. What song do you sing in the shower? Praise Songs... my shower is my best prayer time
22. Favorite girl's name? Savannah.
23. Favorite boy's name? Sam, Jackson, Colby, Bo, and Max.... and Rolo!
24. What's in your pocket right now? nothing in these hot pink shorts
25. Favorite bedsheets as a child? no clue!
26. Worst injury? Mine or my boys.. my broken toes, their broken or cut everything else
27. Do you love where you live? Oh Yeah... Florida Sunshine
28. How many TVs do you have in your house? 2
29. Who is your loudest friend? Kari... we're about the same volume!! :)
30. How many pets do you have? 2... dog and turtle
31. Does someone have a crush on you? All I know of is my hubby! I did have some teenage boys honk at me!! :)
32. What is your Favorite Book? The Life You've Always Wanted and A Snoodle's Tale
33. What's your favorite candy? Ben & Jerry's Coffee Toffee Crunch Ice Cream... yummo!
34. Favorite Sports Team? Whoever my guys are pulling for!! I better say Bama!! Sorry D&R.
35. What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up? Here we go!!!

Oh, You Make Me Smile!

2008-08-25T18:22:00.005-07:00

In the book "The Life You've Always Wanted", John Ortberg states that everyone should have a 'joy mentor' in their life. Someone who is an everending source of joy to your day and is someone that even on a bad day can make your heart swell just because they are in your presence. Well... by golly... I have 4 little joy mentors running around my house...

Ohhhh Spaghetti Max... Isn't he just babylicious?!?

And yes, he's on our cream sheets...

I love that the one thing the boys look forward to the most about the weekend is that they get to sleep together. They were upset that Max couldn't sleep with them. I guess we don't need another set of bunkbeds... just one kingsize. "Four little monkeys sleepin' in a bed..."
Just a little peep into our giggly, yet crazy home!!!

Oh, You Make Me Smile!

2008-08-25T18:22:00.004-07:00

The Greatest Gift of All!!!

2008-08-25T18:22:00.003-07:00

A night out with your girlfriends is a very healthy thing... it is... you have to have a night where you giggle 4 hours straight, and you hang your head out of a sun roof singing, and you order every dessert on the menu to share... it is truly healthy and a wonderful birthday gift.

But I tell ya... nothing is more wonderful than being given a day with my family. I woke up Saturday morning, at my own leisure, walked out of my room to find 4 little boys and 1 big man singing "Happy Birthday" to me with a lit candle in some Texas Crunch that they had made the night before when I was out. There was a beautiful stack of homemade cards that so excitedly dove into. At that point.. I knew it was gonna be a good day. We just played around the house for the morning... no work, no housework, nothing... just play!Then, decided to grab a bucket of chicken and go have a picnic at the pond. We all crammed on one side of the table to admire the beautiful view.
After lunch... we threw out a blanket and just relaxed while the boys played.

Jackson and Max had some sweet cuddle time.

Colby and Bo had there "Huck Finn and Tom Sawyer" time. We all then headed up for a wonderful midday nap! We then enjoyed an afternoon of swimming. I got to lay out in a lounge chair and read "The Notebook" while watching Sam and the guys flip, dive, and frolic in the water. Then, it was time to go home and get ready for...
Our date!!
Sam said the night was mine to choose whatever I wanted to do. I had grand plans to go to a restaurant that has dinner and dancing... then we thought about going to Night of Joy at Disney... but I just decided that I wanted talk to my hubby and enjoy a yummy meal, slowly. So, we found this All You Can Eat Seafood restaurant and REALLY enjoyed our 2 dinner of talking and comfortable silence.

So, I must say 31 is off to a wonderful start...

31 is Gonna Be Fun!!!

2008-08-25T18:22:00.002-07:00

If last night is any representation of how my 31st year of life is gonna go...

IT'S GONNA BE A GREAT YEAR!!!

My amazing friends (minus some very special ones who couldn't make it) surprised me and took me out for my birthday! We went to Houston's and they reserved the private dock for us to spend the evening. Magnificently beautiful and special. It was definitely a night that none of us will forget... one funny story immediately followed by another funny story that caused all of us to wake up with a few more "smily wrinkles" this morning.

It's been said that if a woman has one special friend her entire life that makes her very fortunate. Well... I am one blessed gal. To have these friends that walk through the trenches with me when I'm hurting and hang out car windows with me when celebrating a birthday... makes my heart beam and my smile glow!!! I love ya, girls... keep dancin', laughin', and smilin'!!! And remember...

"What Happens on the Dock, Stays on the Dock!!!"

A Little Chocolate, No Cast, Less Hair, & The Beach!

2008-08-25T18:22:00.001-07:00

While watching my children, I am quickly learning that the need and the ability for pure fun just runs through their veins. It shouldn't surprise me... Sam and I both grew up in VERY fun and active households. My mom was the head of advertising for a water park, so me and my sister have very fond memories of running around the waterpark weekly! When we were with our dad on the weekends... oh my goodness FUN! From bikerides to beach trips to ice cream to gardening... we had fun! Sam's dad was ALWAYS playing and coaching sports with him. His mom is just one of the most fun and lively people I know. So, the search for fun and memories is just engrained in us... seizing every opportunity to have fun...here's a little peek into our crazy and fun week...

Bo found the chocolate syrup... "No need to clean up, let's take pictures... then, lick it off!!!"

Colby got his cast off... "Let's go swimming!!!"
Max got his first haircut... "Let's make it a date" ... just mommy and Max!

Labor Day Holiday... "Let's go stay a night at the beach!"Yay, Sam!! A picture of the boys... with their mom!!!
Gotta love watchin' your biggest boy run into the big waves!
Max's first trip to the beach!! He LOVED it!!!

Oh, Bo!! You just ran and ran and smiled the entire time!
Sweet Colby! You just flopped in those waves with your little body and freshly healed arm. Those waves knocked you over and pulled you under, but you came up with a smile after every wipeout. Have I ever told you you're my daredevil! :)My party boys!! The big boys and momma headed out to Ron-Jon's Surf Shop after we put Max to bed...
Jack, Colby, and Bo couldn't believe that we left the hotel at 8:09pm so we had to get proof... Sam and I couldn't believe we were out at the ocean the next morning at 8:05... Seize the moment for fun, right!!!

Look at those waves... Hurricane Gustav was stirring it up!

Go have a little fun today!!!!

Counting Blessings...

2008-08-25T18:22:00.000-07:00

It is soooo easy to keep your focus on the tough, challenging, and sad things that go on in your day. We all have hurts going on within ourselves, within our families, within our circle of friends, within our community, and within our world. But God clearly tells us to "Not worry" and to "be still and know He is God" and that "He is in control" and to "Trust in the Lord Always."

So, you know what... I'm clinging to that truth... doggone it... and I'm gonna count and enjoy the blessings that are in my life and let God take care of the other "stuff." I just prayed, "Lord, I'm praying hard for all the turmoil, but I'm gonna go play and enjoy these beautiful things You've given me. Let me know when you need me to do anything." Because He will. He will place on our heart what we are supposed to do and when we are supposed to do it. So, go and enjoy this life, but keep your heart open for God to use you when He's ready!!!!

Well. Sweet Max is 10 months old!!! Still not crawling, but who needs to crawl when their our 5 people eagerly awaiting to pick you up!

He wore shoes for the first time this Sunday! As if we have nothing to do on Sunday mornings... the big boys decided they wanted to dress Max up... who says you have to have a little girl to dress up?!?

He had his first biter biscuit... gotta love those messy things!
He did!! See his two teeth on bottom... scrumptious!
He has the exact same little dimple on his shoulder like his momma! He talks to Rolo... he says, "puh, puh, puh, pee!!"
The big boys are at school... Max is taking his nap... "Let's get messy, Mom!" Alright!!!

Watching brothers outside and dreaming of the day to play along!
Okay, so the big guys wanted to sleep together tonight. They all crawled in the top bunk and I let them know... it's a school night, so you have to go right to sleep! "Okay, mom!" (hee-hee-hee as I walk out the door) I stood outside the door and just listened to their little conversations, giggles, and "sounds." Oh, Boys...
I poke back in and they are all giddy with excitement...
I walked back out, soon to hear them... wrestling... I let them know they better have enjoyed this because it's never gonna happen again if they don't go right to sleep...
Well... what-a-ya know... Snug as three little bugs in a bunk bed!!!
Jackson and Max took a bath together... Jackson got Max to say "buh-buh" for brother!!

Oh, the blessings.. thanks you, Lord... I'm listening for ya!!!

1st Day of School... Oh My Heart!!

2008-08-13T09:49:00.002-07:00

So, the day has come for my Colby to start Kindergarten and my Jack to dive into another year. Our house has been excited all summer for this day. The day Jackson could walk Colby to his classroom for the first time... the day for Colby to be in an environment that really utilizes his smarts... the day for Bo to feel like the big brother at home... the day for us to send half of our crew truly into God's hands out of our nest!

It all began with a yummy pancake breakfast by daddy on the plates mommy surprised the boys with when they awoke!

First day of school pics...

Off we go....
Daddy led us in prayer waiting in the car line...
And then they were off...
So, we returned home with Bo and Max. I must say it was eerily quiet around the house. No squabbles or squeals... no way Bo is gonna argue with Max! Now I'm used to sending my Jackson off to school... he's been doing this kinda thing since he was little. My Jack is my "pride and joy" and sending him off is a joy for me because he shines and excels and I love hearing his grand stories when he returns. My Colby on the other hand... this is the first time he has gone off to any kind of school. So, as I put his beloved white bear on his bed and his favorite clean clothes into his cubby... I fell apart. I just knew I would be fine on this first day of school because Colby is so confident, brave, and independent... I had nothing to worry about because he had nothing to worry about. But I didn't factor into the mix that I would miss him so tremendously. When Colby was born... I felt he was my "breath of fresh air." So, as I took notice that he wasn't home, I realized how much I missed his presence! Once I cried on Sam's shoulder and Sam assured me that Colby would " be a breath of fresh air to his teacher and to his classmates", I was ok. I couldn't be sad long because my "Love Baby" (Bo) and "Joy Bug" (Max) were waiting for my full attention and I loved every minute with them!!!

So, they are all home now because school closed for the hurricane for two days... it's a little loud and busy, but I tell ya... when they go back to school Thursday... I sure an gonna miss those loud boogers!!!

One Woman Among Five Men

2008-08-13T09:49:00.001-07:00

When reading the Bible, I am always amazed at how much I learn. I can read one thing that I have read for years and it has a whole new meaning and teachable moment. Isn't it great that God's Word is that way? Well, being one woman among five men... I am always learning something new... be it simple and humorous OR profound and inspiring. Take a little peek into just a few of my insights....

Give boys a pack of tattoos and they will have hours of fun!

And they will get mom in on the action, too!

Break an arm...
and you get alot of Tampa Bay Buccaneers signatures! Have some organizing to do...and a little boy stuck at home with a broken arm while his brothers go swimming...
You choose little boy and have a good ole time with Hershey Kisses

You have a husband that uses a child's Lightning McQueen tackle box as his own and uses it when fishing with his buddies...

You've got a man with his priorities in order.
Got 5 minutes? Grab your baby, run off to their sweet little nursery, close the door, and don't take your eyes, smiles, or kisses off of them!
After spending an hour planting new plants in your pots and beds...
you can expect a basketball to find a new home.

THE JOYS OF BOYS!!!

Lake - Cation!!!!

2008-07-19T00:53:00.001-07:00

A vacation at the lake is called a "Lake-cation." Coming up with that word was the most our brains did this past week during our summer vacation. Every year we travel all over Alabama and Tennessee seeing our family at all of their wonderful "vacation" homes, but this year we planted in one spot and didn't move! Sam's parents Lakehouse!!! Other than the fact that Colby broke his arm the day before we left... it was ALL GOOD!!! Let the pictures tell the story!!!

Oh, my Boys!!!

Max got his second tooth~ and had a blast at the lake!

Pop had a great time with Sam and the boys. He taught Jackson to knee board, went on many fishing trips with Sam, and took care of "broken arm" Colby by taking him for a jet ski ride anytime he wanted.

Colby ate popsicles the ENTIRE week. Poor little guy couldn't get in the water, so he had to stay cool somehow, right? How could I deny him! He said he ate 127 and none of us doubted him.
Oh, Lali love!!! She loves her grand-boys!

Fun playing Uno!

Bo "tummy"boarded after Jackson learned to knee board!
I got to enjoy MANY sweet moments with my guys!
The boys got some sweet time with Daddy, too!
There's our CHAMP!! Jackson was sooo excited that he learned to knee board. He ran to call Austen, Hayden, and Jack to let them know and then asked repeatedly if he could go again! I just beamed at his confidence!!!

Bo adores his cousins, Ben and Isaac!

Nanny Bea came to spend a day with us. She loves rocking chair time on the porch with the babies!
Who says a 9 month old can't can't have a blast on the water!!!

He even got to go for a little jet ski ride with daddy... big boy!!
Our most adventurous little guy had to have a more relaxed vacation this summer. Falling from a slide and completely breaking your two forearm bones and having to have a bone placement procedure with orthopedic surgeons 20 hours before leaving for vacation isn't a great wait to kick off your vacation. But Colby made the most of it... lot's of "one arm" fishing, boat rides, jet ski rides, and popsicles!!

Check out that bagged arm under the life jacket.
Check out that "one arm" fishing maneuver!
And Sam got to fish, ALOT!!!

Now that was a "lake-cation"!!!!

MY Good Morning!!

2008-07-09T11:04:00.002-07:00

Usually about once a week... we get a sweet surprise! After a late night of something fun, Sam and I don't rush to wake up before the boys. Well, when mom and dad sleep in a little... a very special alarm clock goes off. It's the sound of pitter-pattering little feet and little voices saying, "Let's go see mommy and daddy!" As our eyes open, we see 3 little boys, one in tow (yes, Jackson gets Max out of his crib!) shuffling with sleepy eyes, blankets, dolls, and smiles into our room and onto our bed. Oh my... NO better way to wake up. So, all of a sudden our queen size bed just got a whole lot smaller! A few good morning giggles, hugs and kisses, dream telling, and we are ready for our day!

This sweet shot... I had to turn the flash off because their little sleepy eyes couldn't take it! Snugglin' with Blanky!
Sleepy Eyes

(but they are still big and beautiful!)
Oh, Blanky and White Bear!
and Funny Bed Head!!!
Good Morning All!!!

In case you needed to smile today...

2008-07-09T11:04:00.001-07:00

Couch Clan Calamities & Craziness & Cuteness

2008-07-09T11:04:00.000-07:00

well... my boys made it home from the mountains! I'll be doing a different post on that trip because there are more pics to get. Bute here they are... having a blast!!!

Bo came home from the mountains with a new prize! A one inch gash by his left brow, stitched with 6 stitches... compliments of big brother Colby and a skipping rock. I was 12 hours away so Grammoo and Grouch saved the day. she called me from one point in the ER letting me know that Bo was just laying in her lap letting her hold the numbing press on his head and she just rubbed his head! I remember that feeling... He couldn't have been in a better loving place than my sweet mom's lap. Since he got home... he got a little road rash on the cheek... we now call him "Boo-boo" instead of "Bo-Bo!"

Just in case you forgot how flawless his face was before... My mom is one of the most positive people I know... she said, "Ali, it's one of those scars that women think is really attractive on a man!"Putting the boys to bed one night... we couldn't find Rolo to say goodnight... we just decided to go onto bed... come to find out... Rolo was on Bo's bed, buried in his dolls... Reminds us of E.T.!Max has turned 8 months!When I picked the boys up from their mountain trip... Max saw his brothers for the first time and started to make this face... he is smiling soooo big that his eyes close and his grin can't get ANY bigger. He beams soooo bright!!!He is sooo enjoying eating at the table with us. He loves every baby food, loves to drink juice from a sipee cup, and loves Puffs.
We are also having a weekly laugh with Max. Our sweet, Spanish, neighbor watches Max for us while Sam and I and the big boys go enjoy time with our friends. It's our Thursday night Marriage group that we enjoy a meal together and walk through a book together while the kids are upstairs playing with a babysitter. Anyway... Laura puts Max to sleep for us at our house. Well... the past few weeks... Max is up when we get home, dancing with Ms. Laura... AND... his diaper is always on backwards.. figure that out!!!

I peeked at Jackson one day during his rest time to see what he was doing... he was having some quiet moments with God. On his own, unprompted, he got his Bible and Quiet Time book to have a little sweet time with His Savior! Whoo... best picture I ever took!
Big Jack also got a BIG haircut!!! Before....

After...
So, I bought this 12 person table so that our family could spread out and have room... for some reason my guys love to squish together to eat...So... Summer is just one big adventure after another...

I am constantly Amazed and Amused!!

God is Good!!!

WE MISS YOU!!!!

2008-06-16T19:24:00.000-07:00

This blog is specifically for 3 precious boys in Tennessee having an

AMAZING MOUNTAIN ADVENTURE

with their Grammmoo and Grouch without Mom, Dad, and Baby Brother Max... for a week!!

Well... 3 things have happened since you left. #1... The house is VERY quiet. #2... I picked up the house yesterday and it is still clean. #3... We miss our usual loud and messy home.

God is blessing you sooooo much this week with the love of your grandparents and the beauty of the nature that He created. Soak it up boys!!! Ride those tractors, drive those 4 wheelers, watch deer with Grouch, catch those crawfish and minnows, swing with Grammoo on the porch... make sure when you lie in bed tonight to thank God for the wonderful blessing of this trip... will you say a little prayer for us, too!! We sure do miss you, Jackson, Colby, and Bo... but we are thrilled that you get to be there!!!

Training with Dad!!

2008-06-12T07:51:00.001-07:00

The Couch Men are in Training!!!

Sam started a summer workout training program with the boys... and boy is it tough!!

Jack's got the push-ups down!!!
Bo is straining!!
Colby has mastered the ab-roller!
Oh my... look at those muscles!!!

Max says, "Oh, if they could all have my physique!!!"

Max & Jesus

2008-05-24T07:13:00.003-07:00

Have you heard this story... A mom was at home with her newborn baby and three your old son. She was cooking in the kitchen and hadn't heard from her toddler in a while she walked towards the playroom and saw the nursery door had been opened where her newborn baby was napping. As she peeked into the nursery she saw the three year old on a stool looking at the baby. She poked her head in to get him when she noticed that the boy was taking to his new baby sister. To her amazement, she heard him say... " Hey, baby, do you remember what Jesus looks like cuz I'm starting to forget?"

Babies... they are so fresh from heaven. I wonder if they remember that beautiful face of our Savior. Which leads me to our story below...

I was carrying Max past the bookcase and I felt his headjerk to look at something on the shelf. As I traced his eyes, I noticed he was looking at the picture of Jesus and children on the front of this box of storycards. I would walk back and forthand he just couldn't take his eyes off of it. I said to Sam, "He remembers Jesus!!!" Sam said, "Ali, it's just a cartoon picture and kids like cartoons." I said, "No, he's fascinated!"

So, I took the Jesus card out and he just kept staring at it, and touching it and...
kissing it... well, eating it!!!
So, when I called Max's name... he just looked at me and I could feel him telling me, "Thanks, mom, for letting me play with my friend!"

SUMMER IS HERE!!!

2008-05-24T07:13:00.002-07:00

And we are ready for a good time..

We already LIVE at the pool!! It's only June 3rd...

Everybody is throwing their suits and flops on and heading to the oasis that awaits us.

Bo has a special "ride" to the pool!

Bo has learned how to swim by himself...

He's soooo proud!

It's hard to tell if "daredevil Colby" has been thrown by his daddy or if he is falling from the sky!

CANNONBALL JACK!!
Look who is swimming for the first time!! Go, Max!!
Who is that woman holding Max? Oh my word, a picture of mom!! Way to go, Sam, taking the camera for a change!!

Gotta love the hats!!!

Welcome to summertime, boys!!!
Sure does get hot in Florida!! We just seem to forget every year that it can really be THIS HOT!!

Oh, Family!!

2008-05-24T07:13:00.001-07:00

In the light of the recent news of Stephen Curtis Chapman and family losing their beloved 5 year old, Maria; I just had to sit and reflect on how precious family is and how precious every minute is because you never know when it's going to be your last.

We had the blessing this past weekend of getting to be with Sam's Parents, Grandmother, Sister and Family, and our church family from when Sam and I were dating and first married. The Lakehouse was full of love... full of memories... full of joy!!! Making every minute count!

All the boys had to say was, "Pop, can we go fishin'?" Without hesitation, Pop said, "Yeah, let's go!"

I love when the whole family is together because there are alot of people to help Aunt Amanda with her twin boys so she can steal a minute away with our boys!! They love her!!
Uncle Robbie is so playful with the boys.. in a moments notice he will have the boys flipped upside down tickling them til they almost wet their pants.
I have this same picture with all 4 of our boys... Their first boat ride... driving with Pop!!

What a crew!!! Our 4 boys and Amanda's twins, Ben & Isaac. Pop & Lali were made to have grandsons!!

Here we are... relaxed as can be!! The lake, Lali & Pop... R & R!!!

Colby cooking homemade buttermilk biscuits with Lali!!
Max gettin' some Nanny Bea love!!!
Oh, my guys!! Makes a mommas heart leap!!
Thank you, Lord, for family!! Thank you for this sweet little vacation and for our summer vacation to come where we get to see the rest of our AMAZING family. May we cherish every treasurable moment you have given us.

My Children Pray and Read Their Bibles...

2008-05-24T07:13:00.000-07:00

So, I'm just walking through the house and find the dining room table covered with open Bibles. Wow... I thought... what a beautiful scene.

As I looked closer... the Bibles were upside down. so, I thought... what in the world is going on?
The next thing I know... Colby and Bo come running to the table with Monster Trucks in hand squealing... "These hills are gonna be GREAT. Awesome... vroom, vroom!!"
My angels... using God's Word in every aspect of their life!! :)

Dreams Come True!!

2008-04-15T02:33:00.003-07:00

I'm not a girl that wants new and big things... I just like charming things. Well, our back patio has been anything but charming for the past 2 years that we have lived in this house. Anyone who knows us knows that we LIVE outside. I have stared at that patio for 730 days now dreaming of it's white slab to turn into a beautiful stain with a faux technique. I have dreamed of an arbor with a lattice top with jasmine weaving around the posts and making a natural roof. I have dreamed of hanging pots and terra cotta pots full of flowers. WELL.....
DREAMS COME TRUE!!!!

Sam and Seth built a beautiful patio... Momma's heart is beaming with charm!!
We also created the fire pit area for Family Marshmallow Nights!
And... I found my dream table!! SOLID wood, two benches, seats 10 people... thank you craigslist.com!! The lady was desparately asking $250 for it... so, I emailed and asked her if she'd take $75. She replied, "Yes, just take it!!!" YIPPEE!!! I just look at it and envision 4 teenage boys shoveling food into their big bodies... I see them all doing their homework together, I see family game nights, I see scrapbooking galore... I see memories!!!

Bo's Day has Come!!

2008-04-15T02:33:00.002-07:00

He's done it... for 3 years, Bo has been an amazing fan at ALL of Jackson and Colby's games. But Saturday... Jackson and Colby were the fans!! Bo was the athlete. It's soccer season, baby!!! It is soo exciting! He's on a team with some of his BEST buddies... Jack, Katey, James, Jace, Carmine! His coach's are dad's of his friends who he just adores... Coach Jamie, Coach Joel, and Coach Claudio! Our little was shining bright... these are actually pictures of his first practice... my camera died on Saturday... thank goodness for friends with their cameras...

Goal!!

The Fans!

"However you want to do it, buddy. Today's you're day!!

Boys, Boys, Boys, Boys....

2008-04-15T02:33:00.001-07:00

I've always heard the phrase, "Boys will be Boys." Then, I was enlightened to the new phrase, "Boys will be Joys." It's so true. I am finding day in and day out that they just LOVE enjoying the simple joys of life and I LOVE living life like they do.

Jackson loves sports. Whatever season he is in... he pours his life into it. Right now is baseball... he's checking out baseball books from the library, studying players with his dad, and staying out til dark practicing his swing and catching!

Bo loves playing, just playing... nothing complicated; just let him run free. (see that laundry behind Bo... aye yi yi... atleast it's clean... keepin' it real!!)

Max loves his family... put a brother, mommy, or daddy in front of him and he is full of delight!

Colby loves adventure! Anything wild, dangerous, and adrenaline pumping brightens his heart.

WAIT ICE CREAM TRUCK!!!!!

I was about to say how the ice cream truck is a simple joy, but have you gotten an ice cream lately?? $2.50 for one Spongebob ice cream... yikes!

$5.00 later...

GRANDMOTHERS AND OVERPROTECTIVE MOMS BEWARE OF THE NEXT PICTURES...

climbing...

walking to get monster truck...

ready to get down...

remember what I said about his love for adventure... YIPEE!!!

BOYS WILL BE JOYS!!!!

Amazed and Amused...

2008-04-15T02:33:00.000-07:00

This blog is sooo appropriately named! Yet again, another day to prove that I am daily amazed and amused by my children, my husband, and my God.

Just a quiet Monday, well... you know. I was working on the phone going over details for a fundraising lunch this weekend, Sam was playing basketball with Jackson, Max was playing on the floor beside me, and the middle two boys were playing quietly in the playroom; so, I thought! As the birds were chirping and the breeze was flowing through the house... CRASH... I hung up the phone, darted to the playroom, yelling Sam's name the entire way, unbelievably fearful of what I was about to see. Oh what my eyes saw next... water was filling our hallway, then I peeked around the corner to find Colby and Bo screaming, sitting in a flood of aquarium water that managed to fill our entire playroom floor in a matter of 3 seconds. Sam zooms in to scoop them up to make sure they are ok and I began to get towels to stop the flood from filling the house... WE ARE NOT HAVING THAT HAPPEN AGAIN!!! Everybody checked out ok, water was contained, and then Jackson steps into say, "Where's Tommy?" This aquarium houses our Turtle, Tommy. Jackson received this turtle when we lived in New Orleans 5 years ago... then the size of a quarter... now the size of my hand. Well Tommy is blessed for a turtle's sake. He has a huge aquarium half filled water and rocks and a fountain; The Ritz of turtle world. I gasped looking for Tommy. Well, we found him behind the door upside down with a look on his face saying, "What the..." Yes, turtles make expressions! :) All is cleaned up and all is well... I am amused!

Then, I went to shut all the windows closing up this beautiful day we had just had. I was shutting the playroom window and it was getting hung up. I raised it a little, then shut it again... this time to find a lizard tail flopping around outside the window. Well, the girl in me cringed because that meant the rest of the lizard was in the window. I just decided to leave things be and let Sam handle it when he got home from his game. So, I went to lock the window and... OH MY GOSH... the lizards head was lodged right at the lock between the two window panes with its mouth WIDE open as if I closed that window during its last scream. I trotted out of the play room, shaking my hands, and uttering ooh, ooh, ooh! The boys ran to see what was up. I sat them down peacefully to let them know what mommy had done and they raced to the playroom to see it. Next thing you know, we are all on the floor laughing our heads off... each imitating the face of the poor ol' lizard.

Then, sweet bedtime rolled around. Max was already tucked away and it was time for the big guys. Got all three tucked in their beds and each one wanted their own book. I let them know that I couldn't read all three books, but they could read while I got their water. As I walked back from getting water and began to enter their room... I see Colby on the bottom bunk hugging white bear and reading, "5 Little Monkeys," Jackson on the top bunk reading, "All You Need to Know About Baseball," and Bo in his bed reading, "The Puppy Book." I just stood at the door to give them an extra minute forgetting that I was missing the first two dances on Dancing with the Stars. :) I went back in, put their books up, gave them their water, and gave them kisses. History Note: All the boys have been sung three songs every night during their first two years of life... it tapers off at that point or they pick new songs for us to sing. But those three songs are forever engrained in them because they have heard them 730 times each until they were 2. So, back to giving them kisses: Colby says, "Mom, will you sing I Love You So Much?" Bo says, "Yeah, sing me Jesus Loves Me!" Jackson sweetly with his big boy voice asks, "Will you sing me You Are My Sunshine?" So, I sang 3 precious songs to 3 even more precious children. And the travesty of the aquarium and the lizard seemed to just melt away as 4 little boys drifted off to sleep!

Bliss... Pure Bliss!!!

2008-03-14T16:30:00.000-07:00

You know... life is never easy and none of us are promised perfect days, but... I must say things have been pretty blissful around our home. Let me tell you stories through pictures...

Cold days in Florida. Yep... I think we hit about 45 degrees... bundle up that baby Max!!

We learned how to catch fish in our pond! HOT DOGS... they work every time!
And they slap you in the face if you try to look at them too close!

Momma loves her boys... and boy do they love her right back! Colby said,"Mommy, you're 99% pretty." I said, "Why not 100%?" He said, "You need some shiny shoes!"
Max is growing so big and strong! He is getting rolls EVERYWHERE and his dimples are so precious. Rainy days don't keep us inside! Rain + Winter "dirt" yard = GOOD TIME!!
Colby and Bo discovered they have 49 Monster Trucks! They line our whole hallway!So, when Christmas rolls around again... you can guarantee what my answer WON'T be when you ask me what they need!
Max found his bellybutton! That's always a good day!

Daddy's Home!!!!! The day has finally come... our dream has come true!! We are 100% doing ministry! Sam and I are the Ministers to Families with Children and Students. Yee-haw! Sam is not gone 4 nights a week working a second job! I'm 50% stay at home mom and 50% professional... Sam is 50% stay at home dad and 50% professional. Our days are split into a morning shift and afternoon shift... one of us working for our church family and the other with our kiddos. It's soooo wonderful!!! God is good!!!

Happy...
Happy, Happy...
Happy, Happy, Happy...
Happy, Happy, Happy, Happy!!!!

My Toe Hurts a Little, Honey!!

2008-02-21T17:09:00.000-08:00

My famous last words! My big toe had been hurting for a few days and I knew it must be an ingrown toenail. This is the same beautiful toe that caught a fungus of sorts when I got a pedicure one time. Since I've been pregnant or nursing since I caught it, I haven't been able to do anything about it. So, needless to say it is one pitiful toe. Tuesday afternoon, I decided that I better get this sucker checked out because it is hurting worse as the days go by and now it has a red ring around the entire nail. As I had dinner with my Tuesday night dinner friend, she looked at it and said, "You can't wait til tomorrow, here's $20 toward the Urgent Care copay!" Yeah... it was that bad. Well, I waited til the next day. At my 9:00am appointment in which I had Colby, Bo, and hungry Max, Iwas told that they would need to do a 20 minute procedure removing half of my toenail and start me on antibiotics. For a toe!!! Well, I had to leave with nothing done and come back that afternoon without my crew in tow... appropriate wording. Ha!

So, I got Jackson from school at 2:00 and he said he wanted to go with me. Maybe he should've thought this one through... you'll see in a minute! We arrived at the doctor and the SURGERY began... two shots of numbing agent... didn't do it... had to get third shot right in the pain zone. ooh!! All was numb so time to dig in! Uhh! Jackson said he wanted to watch and I advised him not to. He still chose to watch and 2 minutes later... my stoic 8 year old was on his back, with his legs propped up in a chair, and a barf bowl at his side. Big man was going down!! Once the nurses got him all cool... they finished me up. All was good until we started to drive home... the numbing agent wore off and I WAS IN PAIN!!!!! Now listen... I have had 4 C-sections... those recoveries don't come close to the pain I was in over this toe!!! No lie!!! I got home, popped a pain pill... and all was good.

So, now, my toe looks very sad with half a toenail gone. Not really excited that cold weather is going away and flip-flops will be the adornment soon. Yes, she will be exposed... in all her beauty for all to see. I would send a picture, but I don't want you on your back on the floor with a barf bowl by your side!!!

I Had 4 Dates Tonight!!!

2008-02-14T17:28:00.000-08:00

While every couple in America is schmoozing it up tonight... I am not! My sweet hubby is working so that the other two shift managers at the Cafe can have a sweet night together. Totally fine with me... we'll be having a 10:00pm rendezvous tonight to watch the recorded Survivor... can you feel the romance! My night was not sad by any means. I am blessed to have 4 more "little men" in my home waiting in line to take this momma out. And that we did!! We picked Jackson up from school and came home with a "date night" mission. Get clean, get dressed, and hit the town! So, once the three big guys were decked out in jeans and button downs, baby Max was fed and GQ'ed out himself, and momma got as pretty as she could caring for four little guys without a daddy's help... we were off for our date!!! We all decided that Chili's was the spot to hit for dinner. The boys wanted ribs (such a manly dish) and corn on the cob. They were so wonderful... they opened the door for me! Jackson, my little prince, took Colby and Bo to the bathroom at separate times; pausing from his ribs to do so. Now that's a good man! Colby, kept saying that his momma is beautiful. Bo repeatedly laid his head in my lap and said, "I wuv you, mommy!" Max just kept smiling that smile and beaming those dimples to me. Telling me that he loved me without saying a word. As I type this story out, I feel as if the presence of their daddy, my precious man, was with me the whole time. I saw selflessness, I felt my self-esteem rise, I felt love, and I melted with serenity. My boys each gave me a quality that their daddy would eminate on any given day.
In honor of their dad and to keep his presence with us... we walked over to Cold Stone Creamery. I'm not a big ice cream fan, but my boys, just like their dad, EAT IT UP!! I did venture to get their Coffee somethin' somethin'... that'll make me turn into an ice cream lover. Coffee ice cream, heath bar, almonds, and caramel. Ooh whee!!! We then walked on this beautiful ,crisp, star-filled sky night back to the car and headed home.
Looking at them all in my rear view mirror lead me to think... these 4 guys are going to grow up with the qualities that their daddy has and they are going to make 4 very special ladies unbelievably happy one day like my sweet hubby has made me!

Bring the Scale to the Table

2008-01-11T02:00:00.000-08:00

It was an odd night at the dinner table... my boys just weren't eating!!
I thought the world was coming to an end.
They were giggling and talking, but not eating. So, I commented, "If you don't eat, you won't get big and strong like your daddy." In that split second, Colby ran to get the scale from my bathroom. He placed it by the table and weighed himself. Sat down, took a bite, and weighed again to his reply, "Nope, haven't gained yet." Then preceeded to eat more and more, with big brother Jack joining in the efforts, trying to gain weight. By the end of the meal, plates were cleared and maybe a pound was gained... wishful weighing!!! I marveled at their efforts and found a new way to get boys to eat!!
Also, roasted bell peppers look like worms... so, you can imagine the "worm eating contest" was a real hoot...

It's The Most Wonderful Time of The Year!!!

2008-01-01T03:17:00.000-08:00

WOW!! What a JOYFUL holiday season!!!
To kick off the season was The Great Christmas Tree Hunt that I wrote of in a previous post.
Next was Kari's Annual Christmas Cookie Party. This is the event that gets me out of the backyard from playing with the boys and into the kitchen. I LOVE to cook and bake, but I hate giving up playtime to do it. I will be a grand chef one day when the guys are out of the house! All of the cookies were a joy to see and eat. Everyone gets in the holiday, and competitive, spirit!
Then, it was Santa picture night... reference to the previous post!
Next, was our WFC Women's ornament exchange... all of my sweet friends who are so dainty, gentle, and precious 364 days out of the year show their true colors at this annual gathering. We laughed ALL evening. My cheeks are still sore!
Then, Christmas Eve was here! We had a sweet night at our Community Candlelight Service with our precious church family and many more. We picked up our Candy Cane cake from Jen and headed home. Everyone was ready to go to bed except Jackson. So, we tucked three of them in and then stayed up with Jack to read Twas the Night Before Christmas. I remember reading it as a child and getting lost in it. My little girl handwriting is found throughout the book and Jackson thought that it was so cool. We tucked Jack in and got to wrappin'!!! I love that time together with Sam. We hit the hay around 12:00! Soon to be awoken at 5:40am!!

Singing "Happy Birthday to Jesus" with Aunt Jen's Candy Cane Cake and a Candle

Big Digger Bo

Max is Just Chillin'

Colby a little excited to get his bike ramp

Jackson thrilled to get entire Rocky series

Christmas Morning Tornado

After we opened presents, we loaded up and went and did one of themost special things we've ever been a part of. Delivering food to the homes of extremely poverished families in our city. We arrived at a local high school in which volunteers had worked all Christmas Eve packing food boxes from local grocery stores and now were ready to give us a map and boxes of food to deliver. We pulled up "drive-thru" style, grabbed our map with assignment and food and headed out. I was so touched by the long carpool line of folks 8:00am on Christmas morning ready to deliver food. Some people loaded truckloads of assignments. God was shining bright through His people that morning.

Sam and the boys delivering to our special lady.

We returned home to a fun day of new gifts and beautiful weather and a BIG NAP!!! We talked to our family on the phone and I must say I DON'T EVER WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER CHRISTMAS WITHOUT SEEING THEM AGAIN!!! Since Max is so little, we didn't travel this year and most of them had been here to see Max for his birth... so, nobody traveled. I thought I'd be fine... until I heard my sisters voice... never again... we will always see each other for the holidays.

Christmas night we had a Mexican Christmas with our precious friends', The Caffey's.

No school is such a sweet time because all the nighborhood kids are out playing with their new toys!

Day After Christmas is now our new tradition of Couch/Dukes Christmas Breakfast

Caffey Boys came over for a sleepover... Little Jack's first buddy sleepover.

Campfire with Smores

Night Jumpin'

11:00am ... morning after sleepover

"What in the world was all of that about???" says Max.

What a beautiful Christmas 2007!!!
Thank you, Lord, for a beautiful life!!!

All In The Name of Fun!!!

2007-12-19T03:23:00.000-08:00

We're soooo naive!!!
This past Sunday night,we decided to run to the mall real fast and get the boys pictures taken with Santa. Excuse me... did I say real fast... that's where the naive part kicks in.
As we approach the Mall at Millenia... Sam and I give each other that silent glance that speaks volumes. You know the one that speaks, "What in the world have we gotten ourselves into?" As we wind the parking lot looking for a space, Sam says, "Welcome to America boys!" They joyfully continued to talk about Santa... Jackson letting Colby know, "He was real a long time ago, but some kids still believe he is today. I didn't believe that last year, but maybe I will this year!" Once we found a spot, we jumped out into the cold night... yes, it was cold!!! None of us had flip-flops on!!
The mall was decorated beautifully; the boys looked around in awe. We approached the Christmas village and the boys were awestruck by the decorations... you could see there eyes glistening. If you glanced at me and Sam, you would see us "glistening" looking at the line. Oh, the line!! Well, being the FANTASTIC parents that we are... we hopped in line joyfully and were prepared for whatever it took to meet Ol' Boy in the red suit. After we slowly shuffled in line for about 20 minutes, Sam saw a sign that said 90 minutes from this point. Oh, Jesus, help us!! Did I mention we have an 8 week old, 2 year old, 4 year old, and 7 year old in a crowded mall at 6:00pm 1 week before Christmas without dinner and quickly approaching bedtime. Ok.. just thought I'd throw that in!!
So, we took a deep breath, not letting them in on any angst that we may feel inside. So, we commited to the line because DOGGONE IT WE'RE HAVING FUN!!! A good plan arose.. Sam would take the big boys to the food court and Max and I would wait in line. Sure enough, God can use any moment. While they were eating upstairs, I had the chance to chat with a single mom about everything she was going through; one minute talking with her made any stress within me disappear. Hearing her daily struggles made my little evening of harriedness inside pale in comparison.
Once Sam and the guys returned, we had about 20 minutes to go... we could see Santa at this point.. so, it was all downhill from there. Well, almost... Max had a poopie diaper and I was out of diapers... aah!!! So, sure enough, I found a lady in line witha small child and said, "From one mother to another... I need a diaper." She looked at me kinda crazy, so I told her that I would giver her a dollar... I got the diaper. As I'm putting it on Max, I realize that it was newborn size. Can you say Bikini Diaper!!
Then, our moment came... it was our turn... see how they turned out and try to tell me it wasn't worth it...

What did I learn from this experience...

I will never go see Santa on a weekend night.
I will never leave the house without checking the diaper bag.
I will never go to a mall again...
Unless it is to have a night JUST like the one we had a on that cold, Sunday night!!

Count Your Blessings

2007-12-06T17:59:00.000-08:00

As I reflect over the past 6 weeks since we have had Max, I just have to count my blessings when the times get rough. I am getting back into the swing of things with the Children's Ministry after a wonderful maternity leave, juggling everyone's schedules and needs, caring for an infant, trying to keep the house up (if anyone ever gets a free Merry Maid coupon, please send it my way... Shew!), and striving to be a precious wife for my sweet hubby. As I cried on Sam's shoulder yesterday, he just silently let me. Then I s aid, "I just can't do it all." He sweetly hugged me and said, "Just start from the top." My reply being, "What's the top?" Well, I realize tonight what the top is... the first thing that I need to do is count my blessings... look at things through God's eyes.Let's count those blessings together...

1. A Beautiful Birth

2. Sam's parents who so wonderfully took care of the boys during my 4 day hospital stay.

3. A Funny Husband. Sam said that he was cold in the hospital, so I told him to put my pink, fuzzy robe on. Sure enough he did! And he kept it on for all the nurses and doctors to see! Not very kind to keep a c-section patient laughing an entire evening!

4. A Beautiful Nursery. It blesses my heart that we were able to create a precious nursery for our 4th baby. With Jen's painting , curtains, and bedding; Kelli's train conductor gift; and Jess' Scripture painting, Max, our little caboose, got to come home to a warm and sweet, love filled room.

5. Happy Children. Their joy is abounding, infectious, and a true blessing. For a mother who is deeply concerned about their hearts when a new baby comes home... I can take rest because they seem to be doing just fine!!!

6. My Mom. Grammoo comes to save the day. She always spends the week I come home from the hospital with us. She is everything that I need and want her to be. She adores her grandchildren, her son-in law, and makes me feel precious. When we hug at the airport for her to leave is never a good moment.
Surprised with a new basketball goal! She is holding Jackson up!
Quiet time with Bo!

7. My Three Big Helpers. Diapers, bottles, "get the phone"... they'll do it all!

8. A Fun Halloween (with a one week old baby in the house)

Rocky characters, their Trainer, and little punkin'Jackson wanted me to be Adrienne, so Grammoo stepped in for me since I was layed up!

9. New Adventures. Colby learned how to do the monkey bars!!

10. Funny Moments to Cherish.

Jackson is reacting to a surprise from Max in the tub. Let's just say the picture with the "stream of water" from Max couldn't be posted!

Bo's lizard that jumped between his legs. He paniced of where it might go next!!

11. Happy Baby.

12. Fun On The Tree Farm

Hayride!

Take your best shot!

Hunting for the ONE!

Freash Kettle Corn

13. The Face of a Content & Joyful Lady.

Oh... Things Have Changed!!!!

2007-12-01T18:20:00.000-08:00

Big Changes have taken place in our home. I don't know about you, but I initially don't handle change well. You know that chaotic and dismantled feeling you get inside when your world seems to be rocked by change. I get cozy in our routine.
Well, here are the things that have changed... and I'm so glad they did...

1. Sam and I came to the conclusion that only one of us can be working on a project at a time.
From newborn baby duties to fighting brothers... one of us has to be parent 100% while the other works on a project. Which is really cool because there is a 50/50 chance I get to play alot of the day while Sam gets stuff done. Forced to play... woo-hoo!!!

2. Naptime for momma has dwindled.
Long gone are the days of Colby and Bo tucking away for nap, while pregnant momma curls up in her blanket for a good two hour siesta. Now, Colby is approaching five, so nap is not so needed and there is a newborn who likes to fall deep asleep for his nap right when the other guys are bouncing up and ready to play.
So, this gives me great time with my new little Max. He props up on my bent legs up on the couch with my big comfy blanket wrapped around us and we just stare at each other and watch Cosby show reruns until he's ready to lay down. God knows what I need... I ask Him everyday... "Okay, Lord, you know if I need some alone time today; give it to me if I need it, if not than you know I can handle the rest of the day without a little "me time."

3. No more sitting on the sidelines watching games quietly.
Jackson and Colby's football seasons kicked off the week that I had Max. Needless to say they were a little bummed that mom, their #1 cheerleader, couldn't come to games. Well, week 4 out of my c-section... I did it... all by myself... took Jackson, Colby, Bo, and Max to the football games minus Daddy who had to work. Got Jackson and Colby settled at their games and ran Bo to the kids room of the YMCA which he adores his teachers and toys, and then ran back out with Max in tow to watch the games that were going on at the same time, in which I sat between the two fieldscheering both directions for separate children... did I mention that I had just changed Max's poopie in the Y bathroom while warming his bottle in the sink. So, I'm cheering from field to field, jumping up in excitement, feeding Max his bottle, and trying to keep my pants up which are trying to fall down (you know, you've lost just enough weight after pregnancy for these pants to be too big, but not small enough yet for your little stuff!)
I don't gain much from this change, but I guarantee the other fans around me get a laugh!! :)

There is soooo much more that has changed in our family that we could chuckle together about, but there is one thing that is just melting me to the core...
My Relationship with My Savior.
I call on His name more times in a day now than ever before. I call on him for peace, patience, wisdom, patience, comfort, patience, and rest. I am closer to Him now than I have been in many seasons. I can't wait to tell my little guys one day who will then be grown men...
"Thank you for being who you were as little boys because you helped me see the face of God daily. Not only because I was thanking Him for blessing my lfe with your presence, but because I relinquished control over to Him daily to help me raise you and keep you safe , joyful, and yearning to see His face, as well."

So, change is good... so long as you're leaning on the One who is in control of it all...
cuz honey we ain't in control and I'm so glad I'm not.
LET'S PLAY AND LET GOD TAKE CARE OF THE BIG STUFF!!!!

Here We Grow Again!!!

2007-11-02T07:00:00.000-07:00

Sweet Baby Max is Here!!On October 23rd, 2007 at 7:39am
Maximus Graham Couch blessed a little Couch family more than ever could be imagined!!!

We had fun going out to Joe's Crab Shack the night before he was born. Celebration dinner!! Anything to help the time pass by quickly until the next morning!!!

And then he came!!! Sam always gets to see and hold our babies first due to the c-section. Good thing... I'm always crying so hard after I hear their first cry that I wouldn't be able to hold them!!

Jen was our first visitor. Only appropriate... my best friend happens to be the BEST nurse on the planet. She was my everything that morning!!! My encourager with nursing, our personal photographer and videographer, my advisor on staying ontop of my meds, and my peace giver!

Let the fun begin!!! Max started to open his eyes on day 3 at the hospital, so we strated playing!!

Welcome Home, Buddy!!
The brothers were ready to get the next member of the crew home!!

It was hard to keep this post small. We have soooooo many great pics. We have had fun at home with his first sponge bath, dressing up for Halloween, meeting Rolo, and taking his first bottle.
Those pics will have to come later... I have a baby to feed!!

4 Days Away!!!

2007-10-18T17:43:00.000-07:00

Oh My Goodness...
4 days until our newest little man will be arriving!!!
My pedicure is gorgeous (thanks, Jen!), Pop & Lali are set to arrive the night before, Grammoo is set to arrive after our first quiet weekend home as a family of 6 (DID I JUST SAY 6, good grief) , our fun weekend with Jackson, Colby, and Bo is planned, our home is "nested," video camera and digital camera are charged, prayer warriors in place...

I DO BELIEVE WE ARE READY!!!
(take a glance what was first on the list and what was last on the list)
Priorities a little out of whack.... nahh... if you compared my relationship with the Lord and my feet... it would be highly evident which one needed more attention!!!

My next post will probably be with the first picture of our New Couch Clan... so...
so long, farewell, we'll chat when I return from Blissful Baby Holiday!!!

30th Birthday Celebration... coming soon...

2007-09-14T10:44:00.000-07:00

There will be a brief period of time until I write about my birthday celebrations... we have been evacuated from our home.

Yes, a toilet has malfunctioned and caused flooding to the middle and right side of our sweet little home!! AAHH!!! 4 1/2 weeks until Max comes. Glad it's happening now and not closer to his birth!!!

I was just having a sweet ole time celebrating the 3rd surprise installment of my birthday with my sweet Jen. Then came home to Sam and the boys and a desheveled home full of water.

As of right now... we packed up from Jen and Jason's house after staying there a week while they were on vacation and now we are at the Hampton Inn which I am now calling our "home-tel"!! All of my damaged wood floors are all pulled up, living room and kitchen are all covered in plastic, boys' bathroom is a mess, and there room is just an empty shell of dried up carpet.

Home ain't so good, but boy are we having fun!!!! I just have to keep looking at this situation through the boys' eyes... Home is where we are together... As much as I love to create a sweet, loving, and warm home... it is just a house... home is the people who are in it!!! So, whether we are at our sweet friends house or in a hotel... we are home because we are together!!!

Birthday celebration highlights coming soon... once we return from our "vacation"!!!

Dreams...

2007-08-31T19:10:00.000-07:00

Dreams, Dreams, Dreams...
I love having things in my heart that I can't wait to do one day. I love that I am in a place in my life that I can't particularly get to those dreams, yet, because that means I'm in the process of fulfilling dreams now. Having babies; working a job that is soooo fulfilling that it allows me to be home with my kids, but also allows me to thrive in the gifts that God has given; living in a home that I love, not because the house is a certain way, but what's inside of it is sooo dreamy; But I know that I will one day get to those other things! That's soooo important to hold onto those dreams. One thing that hurts my heart is when I ask a person, "What are some things that you would love to do one day?" and they can't give me an answer.
OH GIRLS... know what you would love to do for years to come and hold onto those dreams... YOU'LL GET TO THEM IF YOU KEEP THEM ON YOUR RADAR, because you never know when an opportunity will arise for a dream to come true. God is good and FUN!!! He may just want to pull a blessing out of His pocket when you least expect it!!

So, I want to write them out... dreams that I have! I encourage you to do the same...

ALI'S DREAMS

* Real cooking... spend an hour prepping meals because the recipe is so beautiful it takes that much time to get ready to cook it. FOR NOW... I will live the dream of playing in the mud in the cool, evening air with my boys instead of working in the kitchen. I'll get there one day...

* Visit Italy... Growing up with my grandmother, whose maiden name was Destefano, and the rest of my dad's big family was so rich! I think that that family fun and closeness stemmed from our Italian roots. Well, it spilled over to me. I love having people over to the house, eating, laughing, and sharing life together. So, I'd love to visit the country where my heritage is rooted. Tuscany, oh Tuscany, I will see you one day. I will stay in that villa, walk those vineyards, soak up the Tuscan sun and those beautiful colors of marigold, bronze, and salmon; cook in an authentic Italian kitchen; and just breathe in that air of my heritage. FOR NOW... I will live the dream of decorating my home, as money allows, with a Tuscan feel. I will have all of the friends over that I can, and I will watch "Under the Tuscan Sun" to keep this dream alive!

* Mine and Sam's rocking chairs... Sam let me know that one day he'd like to take on the big task of building two rocking chairs for us to rock in when our last child heads off to college. Oh, what a sweet moment that will be. I can just see me, at 48 years old, sending my last little man off... crying away, but then sitting in those chairs, gazing into my husband's eyes and begin to giggle saying, "It's just us now!" FOR NOW... I will live the dream of raising my four little men to be ready for their days to leave this house to be all that they were created to be. I will soak up their baby days and their days when they just love me soo much :) I will enjoy these days that I am young and don't need to fall into a rocking chair yet because God has given me insurmountable strength and energy to live this fun life.

* Read, read, read... I am slowly fulfilling this dream now, but I can really see it coming to fruition when my boys don't need me sooo much. I do alot of reading to help myself grow as a woman of God, to be a Godly wife, and to be a strong, knowledgeable mother. I have the dream though to read the classics. You know, those books we were forced to read in high school. Got the Cliff's Notes and hoped we could pass the test with the knowledge from that little yellow and black "cheat book." Jane Eyre, Great Expectations, The Grapes of Wrath, The Scarlet Letter, To Kill a Mockingbird. I am reading The Hiding Place right now; about a page a week... so that has me completing it in 2009. FOR NOW... I am living the dream of growing in which ever arena... as child of God, wife, or mother... the classics will come, probably in a basket next to my rocking chair!

Cooking, Traveling, Rocking, & Reading... they will come!

Dreams... Live the ones of today and keep your eyes open for the one's of tomorrow!!!

I was TAGGED!!!

2007-08-21T17:26:00.000-07:00

Ok... I'm gonna respond to my tagging, but everyone that I know in the blog world has already been tagged, so I can't tag them back. SO, does this thing end with me? Sorry I'm the party pooper!

THE 8 RANDOM FACTS...
1. To all of my "clean freak" friends gasp... I would scrapbook, read, or blog at night before going to bed BEFORE cleaning the kitchen... it can wait until the morning!!!

2. My favorite "thing" about God is HOPE. Ever since I have been living for Him, I thank Him daily for the hope that I can cling to during my difficult times, my growing times, or things that people around me are going through. The fact that He is in control and the hope that He will shine bright in a sticky situation if we seek His face, guidance, and perfect will. If I were to have a daughter her name would be Savannah Jane.. if I were to have a second daughter, her name would Hope. Well, if I'm to have a Hope... God would have to put 2 baby girls on my doorstep. Any hope in that? Sure!!

3. My dog and I share the same natural, blonde highlights.

4. I LOVE fried eggplant, beets, and pickled okra. Even when I'm not pregnant!

5. I moisturize my face about three times a day, but I'm lucky to floss my teeth once a week.

6. I have to take my shoes off to drive. Is that illegal? Shhh.. don't tell...

7. Although when Max is born, I will be undergoing a painful surgery and the beginning days of nursing (eek!) and missing my three little men at home... I'm soooo excited about those three or four days in the hospital. That is a time that Sam and I love... yeah, he's helping me sit up, roll over, and get up to go to the bathroom... but we love that sweet time together with our newborn. Little naps, little kisses, and little visits from friends and family... Beautiful time!!!

8. I love getting older... I'm sooooo excited to turn 30 in a few weeks. Be it that I love to accomplish things and grow and succeed and have stories to tell and learn new things and meet new people and watch my children grow and grow deeper in love with my husband... I gotta grow older to do all that. So, bring it on Birthdays... I welcome you with a hug, not punching gloves!

WE did it... I mean... HE did it!!!

2007-08-21T05:41:00.000-07:00

Yes... the day has come... our Jackson went to school!!! And our home did not flood with tears. He shined bright, God shined bright, and mom and dad are beaming quite brightly, as well!

We have homeschooled Jack for the past two years and chose this year to send him to school. Boy was he ready!!! The morning was beautiful. Sam cooked his favorite pancake breakfast and I put smiley faces with strawberries. We gave him a wooden cross necklace letting him know that all of the kids in his class may not know about God or be living for Him, so we wanted him to have that to remind him to make choices that Jesus would make. I let him know that if he didn't want to wear it as a necklace that we could hang it on his backpack strap. He said, "Oh no, I want to wear it." We got the lunch packed and all loaded up in the van to drive our little man to school. Sam pulled up to the front door, Jackson gave Bo and teary eyed Colby a big hug, then we ran up to his classroom. We walked through the, to be expected, chaotic halls and then we walked into his classroom. His room was full of peace. Light music playing, kids coloring... everything a momma needs to drop her boy off for the first time. I got him all settled, asked for a kiss to which he agreed I could give him, and then I was off. As I walked throught the halls to leave, I prayed through every step... "Lord, please fill this place with your angels of protection. Please guard Jackson's heart of any pain. Please help him to make wise choices. Please help him to be the friend and student that he needs to be... and so on, and so on!!!" Every step to the front door was absorbed with prayer. We all took off for a special morning with Colby and Bo and Jack was on his way to being a big boy!!

All day I just kept looking at my watch wondering what he was doing. God just had to be giggling at my fireworks of prayers that I shot to Him all day long. I could feel Him saying, "I got him, honey!"

Then, it was time to go get him. As we drove... we wondered was it fun or was it boring; were kids nice or possibly mean; did he learn anything or just play??? The moment I saw him, my smile tapped my ears... OOOHHH, there's my boy and he's smiling as big as me!!! Got my big hug and loaded him up. I turned to look at him and I asked, "Well, how was it?" With his mommas expressive arms opened wide and a grin on his face, he said, "PERFECT!"

YES.... thank you, Lord, for blessing his first day with joy! We went home to have a special cookout and bake a celebration cake!!

I loved tucking his tired little self into bed and praying with him thanking God for taking care of him and his heart!

So, now he's off for day two. I asked him if he wanted his necklace and he excitedly put it on! I let him know that everyday may not be perfect and that we would talk through those days as well. To which he asked if we could have a cake on those days, too. To my reply... "those are the days we need cake the most!"